tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-164626652024-03-13T05:12:38.988+05:30Purple DiariesRupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.comBlogger47125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-42844071389108536502017-11-10T19:34:00.000+05:302017-11-13T23:00:57.275+05:30I was good at being a rat<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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time travelling internationally and I was visibly excited! I felt proud because
I had earned this trip. I was one of three young people selected to represent
India at an <a href="http://www.thehindu.com/quest/200408/stories/2004081400090400.htm"><span style="color: blue;">international environmental program</span></a> in South
Africa for 10 days. I never imagined that this would turn into such a life
changing experience (as clichéd as that sounds) and I must admit I never fully
realized how much of an influence this experience has had on me until now. I
was just another 17 year old, excited to travel abroad for the very first time
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<span style="font-family: "cambria" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Growing up, I was very nerdy, annoyingly competitive and very much
keen on being the fastest rat in the rat race. I was good at being a
rat ☺; I excelled at academics, ranked among the top three in almost every
examination and did well in extra-curricular activities. Then, at 17 years, I
met 50 other 16-18 year olds who helped me discover the meaning of true
accomplishment. 51 young people, in the South African wilderness, without
gadgets, computers, internet, phones or books for 10 days….. I think it was the
first time in my life that I was focused on just getting to know people and reflecting
on my own existence (not to mention enjoying the sounds of lions roar and
beautiful sunrises by the watering hole)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "cambria" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">No… I did not have an epiphany in the wilderness, but it did leave
me with the desire to not be a rat anymore. I wanted to be more human. The
wonders of the South African wilderness and the company of 50 inspiring young
people infused me with a sense of curiosity and left me with an itch that I
couldn’t fully identify back then. I spent the next few years of my life
experimenting with multiple things, launching a mild rebellion against myself
and my idea of accomplishment. I tried my hand at event management, volunteered with some NGOs, set up a
small student volunteers run institution with friends on HIV/AIDS awareness,
earned an internship in Malaysia to work with young people on environmental
issues, learnt some French, did another internship in Mumbai on issues of water
management, read as much as I could. Of course, to appear more normal, I
appeared for all possible MBA entrance examinations in my final year of
university, but never bothered looking at my score twice. I decided to take a
year off and spent it experimenting more, reading more. This is a luxury that I
am extremely grateful for.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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When I was back in South Africa earlier in June this year as part of the <a href="https://www.vitalvoices.org/what-we-do/signature-programs/vvlead/"><span style="color: blue;">VVLead</span></a> fellowship and heard Alyse Nelson
speak to us about our ‘driving force’, I was intrigued and started reading more
about it. I stumbled on an article that said that there are broadly
two basic kinds of driving forces – one where you are running <i>away from</i> something
and one where you are running <i>towards</i> something. While the
former is important, the latter gives your life true meaning.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "cambria" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">My experience at 17 in the South African wilderness nudged me and
helped me ‘run away’. However, I do not remember the exact moment when I made
the transition from ‘running away’ to ‘running towards’ something. Somewhere in
between that year off after graduation, I instinctively knew I wanted to work
in development. From that moment on, I never ever doubted or regretted this
instinct.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Studies at the London School of Economics on a <a href="https://www.telegraphindia.com/1080828/jsp/careergraph/story_9750721.jsp"><span style="color: blue;">scholarship</span></a> for a year and began
experimenting again, but this time, with a very clear purpose.
I travelled to Mexico on a social fellowship, where I met Dana my ex-boss. Dana
infected me with her passion for bottom-up development and introduced me to her
impactful, honest work in Ghana. Working in Ghana helped me realize that I
really wanted to work in India. I felt more connected to India spiritually and
culturally and believed I personally would be more impactful in India. I must
admit this wasn’t easy. I applied for jobs in the non-profit sector but was
never offered a role that involved working directly with communities. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "cambria" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">When I look back, I realize that the development sector in India
is a tough one to break into, especially if you have no prior background and no
idea where to begin. I was slowly beginning to get restless and was on the
brink of giving up when the <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c5LI_qZGJXk"><span style="color: blue;">ICICI
fellowship</span></a> happened just then in 2010, which assigns young
people to rural grassroots organizations for a period of 2 years. This fellowship was perfect for someone like me. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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I was very fortunate to have been serendipitously placed in <a href="http://www.shramsarathi.org/"><span style="color: blue;">Shram Sarathi</span></a>,
a social business which I currently lead. For the next four years of my life
(long after the fellowship was over) I lived and worked among tribal migrant
communities in rural Rajasthan. The experience only reinforced my passion for
development and really demonstrated how long term engagement and complete
immersion in communities are so critical, both for creating social value and
personal gain. But now that I think of it, the experience also played a
significant role in shaping up my ‘driving force’ in life. My ‘driving force’
is still a work-in-progress, hard to articulate and I will write more about it
as I reflect on it and debate with myself.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "cambria" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">But for now, all I can say is this – I was good at being a rat,
then life gave me the opportunity to be more human. Thank God!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-56818218538087667062013-07-03T23:06:00.001+05:302013-07-03T23:07:15.639+05:30"Managing" Expectations at Work<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-GB">I am one of
those people who will pretty much google anything and everything (Yes, I use ‘google’
as a verb). I had yet another dismal day at work today and it had a lot to do
with “managing expectations” at work. So I got back home, googled this phrase
and read the top few articles that showed up. Most articles spoke about
communicating well with your boss to manage his/her expectations; to ensure that
we performed exactly the way we are expected to...... Now all these are
certainly important and some of those articles I did read with interest, but
that is not what I was looking for. Today at the end of work, I was left
wondering how to manage one’s own expectations from others – the team, the
wider community, people you deal with during work etc. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB">I’ll tell you
what triggered this post. We are about
to launch a new branch in a new rural/ semi-urban location and it is a very
exciting time for my organisation and me. I booked a few pieces of furniture
last week and today its delivery was due. When I inspected the piece of
furniture I was about to buy, I noticed it had a few scratches on the top
surface... I forced myself to look away. The shop owner read my mind and said
that these things happen during transportation....Again I forced myself to
agree with him. I looked in another direction but then noticed another scratch
on the side. I diverted my gaze to ignore it. I looked in the downwards
direction and noticed that the ply had chipped off on one of the doors. I
couldn’t handle it anymore and I requested a replacement. I was told not to
expect 100%. I agreed and thought to myself, probably 95% wasn’t too bad an
expectation to keep. The shop owner was non-chalant. He knew he was the only furniture
shop owner in a 10 km. radius and I would have to agree with him. I still stood
my ground and refused to accept it. He refused to offer a replacement and the
deal was off. I left with really mixed feelings. I was glad I refused to
purchase the item, but somewhere I felt, what now? Where would I get the furniture
and how would I set up the office? Two senior colleagues at work also inspected
the table and while they agreed it was not perfect they did gently tell me to
purchase it..... I held on to my stubborn demand to have a non-scratched,
non-chipped office table. Later when I sat on the bus, I kept wondering if I
had done the right thing. Probably.
Probably not. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB">Now that I am
writing this post, I decided that I’d go back and well..... purchase it </span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">L</span><span lang="EN-GB"> . I fought hard with myself and accused myself of lowering my
expectations. Then I weighed the options. If I didn’t get that table, I’d have
to order one from Udaipur, 70 kms away and in all likelihood that would be
scratched too, not to mention the additional costs involved in getting it transported
here to Salumbar. That would mean no table for a week – a disorganised office
for a week – a complete mess. I was given this feedback quite subtly earlier
that given the context we operate in and its limitations one needs to set
expectations accordingly and work around that. That doesn’t mean lowering one’s
expectations, right? It probably means learning to manage them better. Managing
expectations is TOUGH and I wouldn’t say I’ve done a very good job ..... but
now I’m comfortable admitting it to myself, which for me is a big step, a
difficult step. Hopefully I will ease into it over time. It will hopefully do a
lot of good to my team management skills as well. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB">I wish there
were an easy way to learn this. Having grown up in a big city and then having
moved to work in a small semi-urban/rural town is not an easy transition. I
thought I had made the transition 3 years ago, but apparently not. I’m still
learning to. None of this stops me from dreaming though.....that how wonderful
it would be if furniture shop owners cared for what they sold, that painters
would give you a perfect finish, that the cleaner would dust a little better,
that plumbers would fix your pipe on time and that someday expectations wouldn’t
make you feel super-guilty. Some day..... </span></div>
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Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-9128121442493466412013-01-12T19:06:00.001+05:302013-01-12T19:06:34.498+05:30Salumbar<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
After two and half years of being in Gogunda, it is time to move to a new place, have a new experience, meet new people. I've moved 70 kms. south of Udaipur to a place called Salumbar. Like Gogunda, it is yet another "source" area - where men migrate in large numbers to Gujarat, Maharashtra and other affluent states in search of work. Unlike Gogunda however, Salumbar has relatively higher literacy levels and people are far more vocal about their rights here than in Gogunda.<br />
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It will be an interesting experience no doubt, but I do miss Gogunda. I miss the warmth, the familiarity and the memory of my time spent there. In the 'largeness' of Salumbar, I feel a bit lost. I remember my first day in Gogunda. I was excited, nervous, eager to please everyone I met and more talkative than I usually am. My first day in Salumbar, I feel a bit different. Sure there is excitement, but of a different kind - it has more to do with the work that I will be doing in Salumbar rather than simply the experience of living here. I know it will never be the same as Gogunda and it probably isn't fair to compare the two. I just hope that I can begin my life here in Salumbar with an open mind and who knows what might be in store next!</div>
Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-53393003527213184442011-01-03T13:23:00.002+05:302011-01-03T16:28:08.283+05:30To New Beginnings...As 2010 comes to an end, I can’t help but reflect back on how the past 12 months have been. Very clichéd, I know.... but such reflection is accompanied by a deeper understanding how I’ve changed in the past one year and if I was the driver of change elsewhere. <br />Needless to say, 2010 was largely defined by the last 5 months that I spent working in the southern tribal belt of Rajasthan. I must admit, for the first 3-4 months I felt like I was shooting in the dark, perplexed by the complexities involved in the work I was doing. But now after nearly 5 months of trying to find my way, I finally have greater clarity on my work and the direction it needs to take. This realisation comes at an apt juncture as we move into the New Year. While I do not have any big resolutions, my jingle for 2011 would be “To New Beginnings”..... to fill my year with the start of something new, something meaningful and something much larger than myself.<br />On December 15th, 2010, I piloted “Samruddhi” – a wealth management programme for migrant households in the block of Gogunda, 40 kilometres north-west of Udaipur. I feel excitement, enthusiasm, a tinge of naivety, idealism and nervous anticipation all at the same time. While it is too soon to assess whether Samruddhi is of sound design both on paper and on the ground, I feel content with the effort that has gone into conceptualising and initiating it. Clearly there are ‘miles to go before I sleep’ and I am wide awake as never before. <br /><br />There have been a few challenges along the way. For instance, how do I help a family gain more lucidity on their own goals and their current financial reality? How do we rebuild trust after one has been through a bitter experience like insurance fraud or dealing with government bureaucracy? Are we capable of making them believe in a product/service/ scheme after they have been disappointed once? And if yes, how long will that take and at what cost will it happen? Anecdotes of bad experiences from the field fill my mind with doubts about how much value will I be able to add to these families. Will I always have an answer for every family’s problems? And if I do have an answer, how dependent is it on a third party? I suddenly realise that 2 years is hardly enough to do what I have in mind and 5 months have just whizzed past me. <br />I have incorporated a financial literacy programme both for our staff members and our beneficiaries within Samruddhi. As service providers, we realised that we ourselves do not possess the expertise to guide families on the right financial plan for them. So a key component of Samruddhi is to provide training to our field officers on financial concepts, products and services and the ability to understand a household’s financial needs, goals and aspirations. While I am able to train my staff, I wonder how I will be able to fill gaps in my understanding of financial services for low income households.<br />The financial literacy model for our beneficiaries is slowly shaping up. Thus far, I have developed and pilot tested two literacy tools with our beneficiaries. The first one called “Paison ka Ped” is an interactive tool that uses no text at all and hence well suited to our target audience. The second (for which I haven’t decided a name yet) is primarily for our female clients as well as female household members of male clients. This tool provides a simple way to track monthly household cash inflows and outflows, which requires the client to neither write anything nor maintain complex worksheets. As I test these tools on different groups, I make small modifications in its design and delivery and am hoping it will be perfected soon.I will share more details on these tools after testing them with a few more groups. <br />I am aware that there are a zillion things that I myself do not know about wealth management and I hope that the forthcoming training will help me gain clarity on at least some of those. <br />The past year has been different, in an exciting, instructive and transformative sense. I have done things that I could never have imagined doing and lived in ways that I never thought possible. For me the highlights would be living in a mud house in freezing cold, bathing in the open next to a well, sleeping in a stable with a very temperamental cow, nabbing thieves in the village during Diwali, working as a temporary conductor for a buswala so that I could earn my seat, living out of a suitcase, attempting to drive a tractor, harvesting corn, cultivating coriander and mint at home and so much more. I step into the new year with fond memories of 2010, a greater desire for adventure and a deeper commitment towards my work here in Rajasthan. Happy New Year everyone!Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-33556624963659269962010-12-27T18:38:00.002+05:302010-12-27T18:41:51.238+05:30Chronicles of a 'Development Migrant' in RajasthanIt’s been 4 months for me in Gogunda, Rajasthan now and I am filled with stories from the field. I’m presently working with the Rajasthan Shram Sarathi Association (RSSA) which is a section 25 company started by Aajeevika Bureau in 2006.<br /><br /><br /><strong><br />My Organisation</strong><br />RSSA primarily provides general purpose loans and emergency loans to migrant households in the rural tribal belt of southern Rajasthan and destination centers of migrant workers in Gujarat. Other services include linking migrant families with insurance and pension plans provided by the state government and other private entities. There is a general perception here that RSSA is only a loan provider, but part of my role here is to change that image by popularizing financial products like insurance and pension as well as moving towards a ‘wealth management’ approach in our services. My main task is to create a financial literacy model, pilot test it in a few treatment villages and evaluate its impact. The idea is to create a model that can easily be adopted by organizations elsewhere with a few modifications here and there. Furthermore, during the course of my work I am required to identify gaps in financial services for migrant families and if necessary design new financial products and services that are relevant for migrant workers and their families.<br /><br /><br /><strong><br />What I’ve been upto</strong><br />In the first few months, I’ve literally been in the field almost every day, with very little time in the office. It has been amazing sitting down with migrant families and understanding their lives and their money management strategies. Every migrant family has a different story and this makes my task seem all the more challenging. How do we reach as many households as possible without running the risk of falling into a ‘one-size-fits-all’ approach?<br /><br />What’s more fascinating are the savings mechanisms that exist here in the villages of Gogunda and Kelwara blocks. Gullak Bachat is a common savings tool here. I will put up pictures soon. What RSSA does is provide a Galla or a tin piggy box with a lock. We lock it up and give it to each loan client so that they can save regularly. However, the key is kept with us. On the day of collection, the loan installment is usually adjusted from the savings made by the client in the Galla. It hasn’t benefited all families, but overall it seems to have become an effective tool to not only save but also pay loan installments on time. We are further exploring how we can further use the Galla to encourage better wealth management strategies by households.<br /><br />Local moneylenders are also considered an effective savings avenue. In the past 2 weeks, the biggest lesson I’ve learnt from the local staff is that a huge process of unlearning is so very essential if I have to understand financial behaviour of households here. For example, I was told that often people save Rs. 1000 with a local sahukar (moneylender) and then receive Rs. 900 at the end of one month. This may seem really stupid to an outsider (just as it did to me), but on closer scrutiny, it was found that the family valued 900 Rs. a month later when they had a baby due than 1000 Rs. today…because they knew if they had the money today they would spend it on unnecessary luxuries. This weird sort of saving mechanism takes quite a lot of time to digest (and I still haven’t been able to do so entirely).<br /><br /><br />I am the first female member of the RSSA staff and they’re quite thrilled about that. Most of the data that they have gathered in the past few years about financial behaviour of migrant households has mainly been sourced from male members. My role here is to actively involve women and even children in the wealth management process. The women here aren’t as passive as we think. They may be shy and quiet and docile, but they do have some smart ways of saving up cash in the home. Some of the women I spoke to hide money with wheat and corn, between saris, in small cracks in the walls, in earthen pots, in between photographs and where not. Understanding this in my opinion is crucial to developing the financial literacy model.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><strong>How can you help?</strong><br />Please keep forwarding useful literature on financial literacy and financial behaviour of migrant households. I am still taking time to understand the financial dynamics of migrant households and the more I learn, the more complex it seems.<br /><br />Also I would really appreciate any help on available insurance and pension products, particularly life insurance, personal accident insurance and health insurance for rural masses. I am already exploring the options available here such as RSBY, Rajasthan Vishwakarma Anshdai Pension Yojana, United India Insurance and Birla Kavach scheme. Any more schemes would obviously be useful to know.<br /><br /><br /><br /><strong>On a Personal note…</strong><br />Everything has been wonderful thus far !!!! I live in a small cozy room right next to the office. I have a wonderful family living downstairs who always have unlimited supplies of roti sabzi. That said, I cook every day – breakfast, lunch and dinner. I even wash my own clothes in the tiny little square that we call a bathroom and clean the place up whenever I find time.<br /><br />Dhivya has been staying with me for a month because her room wasn’t available…but it is now and she will be moving in a day or two. I will certainly miss having her around and rambling about anything and everything late into the night…but I’m also looking forward to being a little more independent on the personal front.<br /><br />When you look out my window, you will see corn fields encircled by the Aravalli mountains which are covered with a lush green carpet for now. I do have some rather friendly company in my room as well – two lizards, funny looking colourful insects from the corn fields and honey bees once in a while. I’ve become rather used to them now.<br /><br />I love the people here. Everytime I go to buy vegetables or groceries I end up having tea with the chai wala or newspaper wala or the mithaiwala or bartanwala or people from the police force or anyone familiar whom I end up meeting. Even when I go for field visits, the villagers always forcefully stuff my bag with fresh vegetables from their fields. I am constantly touched by these little gestures that people here extend. Yesterday on my way back from a village, I met some one on the bus. Within a 30 minute bus ride she was so happy that she gave me a few wild bhindis and chillies that she had just plucked from here fields. Truly touched!<br /><br />I am so thrilled to be here and spend the next 2 years working in such a warm, friendly environment and I can’t wait to have new adventures each day!!! I’ll just sign off with two lines from one of my favourite poets ‘Lord Byron’ in one of his poems called ‘The Dream’. It constantly reminds me that giving life to a dream is full of mixed experiences and the better prepared we are for it, the more we will enjoy the process!<br /><br /><br />“<em>And dreams in their development have breath,<br />And tears, and tortures, and the touch of joy</em>”Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-18112581474338897842010-05-04T23:45:00.007+05:302010-05-05T00:43:20.232+05:30This be GhanaGhana?? Where exactly is that now? Not many of my relatives or friends know Ghana exists. “It’s in West Africa”, I say and then everyone goes “Ohhhh, okay”... The next question addressed to me with a genuinely concerned expression is – “So is it safe???” ... I say, “Why yes of course, one of the safest African countries actually”...At this point I get either one of two reactions or both: 1) Africa is a not a country?!?!?! And 2) How can Africa be safe????<br /><br />I must admit, I wasn’t too familiar with the African continent myself until I went to South Africa and I too had misconceptions about Africa. It’s funny how we like to put the whole of Africa together and talk about it as one entity – Africa is not safe or Africa is so poor or Africa is so hot or there are so many wild animals n Africa... It is also strange that we let media images of a few places in Africa dictate our general mental image about the entire continent....and also how most media reports from the continent are always about something depressing and ominous. <br /><br />After returning from Ghana, I had plenty of stories to convince people that there were many good things about Africa... or should I just say Ghana. I was working in Pokuase village, slightly over an hour from the capital city Accra and it was a huge learning experience. It had been 6 years since I went to South Africa, so just being back on the same continent made me feel happy. I always feel a great passion when I’m in Africa (I know I’m generalising again). It is just the energy and the people and the certain oomph that Africa embodies. <br /><br />Ghana is possibly one of the friendliest countries I’ve ever been to. From the moment that I stepped into the country, I was greeted by smiling faces, and Akwaba’s all around. Akwaba is a Ghanaian word for ‘Welcome’. It’s a typical Ghanaian way of saying “Akwaba, You are welcome” infinite number of times. Even the village that I lived in was full of smiling faces. The walk to my workplace was about 20-25 minutes from where I lived. So each morning, during that 25 minute walk, every single person who walked past me would greet me with a “Good morning, how are you doing?” and a wide smile. The same happened on the walk back during the evenings. I was told by some of the locals that it was a good thing that I responded to their greetings because then I wouldn’t be considered an outsider. I would be a part of their community and so no one would mess with me and even if someone did the whole village would come to my rescue. Nice!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYwdftXeCmVn9gnVnMZJ5yqTTMubekc_rVLyLQMpptY_SBGZxis7bKXl76y7OTmJE8DzLIjd3FeU-op6_8wtKD1dl31TajN1X4n9T2nYh05gSeWKVvGippIMRbEdfkf7VemO2M/s1600/This+be+Ghana.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 276px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYwdftXeCmVn9gnVnMZJ5yqTTMubekc_rVLyLQMpptY_SBGZxis7bKXl76y7OTmJE8DzLIjd3FeU-op6_8wtKD1dl31TajN1X4n9T2nYh05gSeWKVvGippIMRbEdfkf7VemO2M/s400/This+be+Ghana.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5467480373812593170" /></a><br /><br />In terms of development, Ghana definitely has a lot of catching up to do. While it has much better development indicators than a lot of other African countries, some things in Ghana still need to evolve and transform, particularly their political system. They do have a democratically elected government, however most political debates centre around the ‘character’ of the leadership rather than their take on social issues. It is not unusual to turn on the radio and listen to one politician talk about how many boyfriends the other politician has and hence she shouldn’t be favoured in the forthcoming election. These were brought up even during my discussions with some of the locals. The younger generation however definitely seems much more informed and concerned about government policies and their international image.<br />Yet another disappointment was the work culture. Punctuality has yet to become trendy in Ghana. It might seem trivial now, given the other issues that they face, but punctuality is so crucial at any stage of development. How do you get work done if people are never on time? I was told by a local that this (not being on time) is part of their culture and I should enjoy it while I’m there. Seriously ?!?! By making it ‘cultural’ she almost made tardiness a perpetual, everlasting component of Ghanaian life. Such defeatist attitudes must be removed if change has to happen. Not just that, often when things got difficult, the general response I got was “Don’t worry, leave it to God”. Sure, it’s good to have faith in God, but well you need to do something too. I also noticed that Ghana doesn’t have a strong domestic industry of the kind that we can boast about in India. Most of the big companies are foreign MNCs and a lot of the contracts go out to Chinese firms. <br /><br />That said, Ghana presents so much opportunity because of its open-mindedness and tolerant attitude. The village that I worked in was so open to changes, particularly when they were explained about the possible benefits. I hate to generalise, but often in India, we face major roadblocks in development interventions, largely due to a more rigid mindset and way of living. <br /><br />Ghana has its own little quirks like any other country and that’s what makes it so endearing. Travelling in tro-tros, cheering for the Black Stars, listening to sermons in the most random places, buying Chinese herbs from a wannabe priest, drinking ‘pure’ water from the roadside plastic bags, the plantain chips, fufu, banku, red red, tilapia, okro stews, having 100% pineapple flavoured alcohol, swimming at Kokorobite, getting soaked in sweat only to be covered by orange dust, having conversations with random people on the street – Ghana definitely has given me some amazing memories and lots of stories. I return from Ghana with fond recollections of Pokuase and working with some amazing women. Ghana has infected me with her energy, passion, open-mindedness and zest for life. Some day soon when I go back, hopefully there'll be a different Ghana waiting for me – progressive, livelier and always on time :)Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-18848661586059749852009-10-08T18:10:00.002+05:302009-10-08T18:18:24.347+05:30Quand j’était en Suisse<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhg1W4k__WXK54g_qvIK_dQo8yHY4sz0xqeOscPQAAI9pKgaDyBRCucm5CHng2yEeqAH9cNgJzNlMiI9WpPO8AxMEJb6jrZZ19h7CjX2xSSRbmN9VbUwL37exlYzMolDaY-PuLg/s1600-h/01.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhg1W4k__WXK54g_qvIK_dQo8yHY4sz0xqeOscPQAAI9pKgaDyBRCucm5CHng2yEeqAH9cNgJzNlMiI9WpPO8AxMEJb6jrZZ19h7CjX2xSSRbmN9VbUwL37exlYzMolDaY-PuLg/s400/01.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5389418682604120194" /></a><br /><br /><br />I was in Switzerland in August visiting my friend Shruti. It was the perfect opportunity to see her after so long and also take a much needed break from my dissertation. Lausanne is so different from London. It's more peaceful, but sleepier, with a zillion opportunities for nature lovers and those crazy about adventure sports. Oh and it is so French, only better (mainly because I could understand the Swiss French accent, unlike the French French accent). <br />Lausanne is also a city built on the slope of a hill, so the roads are quite steep in most places. You can even feel the inclination when you travel by the underground metro. The cutest part about the metro is that when a station approaches, there is a themed music that plays unique to that particular station....so even if you miss the name of the station, the sound effect should be enough to tell you where you are. <br /><br /><br />I even went para gliding en Suisse, over the Valaisian Alps. It was A-M-A-Z-I-N-G.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgrGqUpdVreOx9jZkAdGC4UR_vOnyPhEXlKsueshvFKvD0lRfPvashkY0sCYCheSu_5Oz9hevxHndC20Mv0S9HYrKZpkjyBjy5E7jHRlhWZjYrRW6RuyfszYbFKd4zfIUKruF-w/s1600-h/02.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgrGqUpdVreOx9jZkAdGC4UR_vOnyPhEXlKsueshvFKvD0lRfPvashkY0sCYCheSu_5Oz9hevxHndC20Mv0S9HYrKZpkjyBjy5E7jHRlhWZjYrRW6RuyfszYbFKd4zfIUKruF-w/s400/02.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5389419063351797378" /></a><br /> <br />You glide through the air, over mountains, into clouds, staring down at corn fields and little chalets. The air ever so gently pushes you in different directions. You stare down and see your feet hanging miles away from land. The road is just a thin line, the houses look like a Monopoly board game and the magnificence of the mountains becomes clearer. <br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuOn2VKrhkdmL9jncSNJKl2a7T_CpEM_IfHw3DenDH-nAtlXiXbizrwB59gNhoOpdAYgL6IjXL6bgb998_M9CTFcIvCadfn45jvBUTaKALbBIahYrrcDBPqkO4L3vyWkoHqou0/s1600-h/03.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuOn2VKrhkdmL9jncSNJKl2a7T_CpEM_IfHw3DenDH-nAtlXiXbizrwB59gNhoOpdAYgL6IjXL6bgb998_M9CTFcIvCadfn45jvBUTaKALbBIahYrrcDBPqkO4L3vyWkoHqou0/s400/03.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5389419438494664354" /></a><br /><br />It is liberating, hanging from a few pieces of string, feeling the cool breeze and feeling nothingness beneath your feet, but at the same time feeling as though the entire landscape belongs to you. It gives you a strange sense of power and at the same time you're at the mercy of the wind.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIAG9Vn2H2x4lB7DmpSIumIaOgfREPoUHreTQPLBxG9NBrpvNOje4MfiN7xzlIIuQEYM-Oa8ajdkvWf3rTOtVfWDoB26wH1flEziCPZ1hRlu4d2A6zJ7M63Um40FgcKyOPCUq7/s1600-h/04.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIAG9Vn2H2x4lB7DmpSIumIaOgfREPoUHreTQPLBxG9NBrpvNOje4MfiN7xzlIIuQEYM-Oa8ajdkvWf3rTOtVfWDoB26wH1flEziCPZ1hRlu4d2A6zJ7M63Um40FgcKyOPCUq7/s400/04.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5389419684397942050" /></a><br /><br />Navigating myself<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxnTgLcoSpP0pDql5j468OIeEi-QRFPAI0YHz10xm6K7HeqLj9iHaIK6jhhAf2EOueOkhGGvPaMWlvCHqj1jG_zgCtQAg1gNrG-imOTsVp3RZhfiud_b-yB6ZZ5n-CtN1hSyKy/s1600-h/06.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxnTgLcoSpP0pDql5j468OIeEi-QRFPAI0YHz10xm6K7HeqLj9iHaIK6jhhAf2EOueOkhGGvPaMWlvCHqj1jG_zgCtQAg1gNrG-imOTsVp3RZhfiud_b-yB6ZZ5n-CtN1hSyKy/s400/06.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5389420779666590818" /></a><br /><br />Christophe - my instructor<br /> <br /><br />My instructor Christophe, taught me how to navigate myself and let me take control of the glider for a few minutes. Ahhhh, one can't imagine how that feels - Being in total control in mid air, knowing that you could lose that control just as easily. Adrenaline.....lots of it !!!<br /><br />Of course, i even visited Geneva to see my very own south Indian super star Affan. Too bad we didn't get to spend a lot of time together, but he did take me the United Nations building in Geneva.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDaktn3xPkAONcGz3qv_gDYKy76e-71ersF_0sqCuM4E772X9a_RHrNNRgOTq8UM_50zoyWFTQBGw-wi9meVj6k-bXXDeLZIAbC2NYRXbH6FPdzK2N6W3CEScABWg_bMBkfPeJ/s1600-h/07.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDaktn3xPkAONcGz3qv_gDYKy76e-71ersF_0sqCuM4E772X9a_RHrNNRgOTq8UM_50zoyWFTQBGw-wi9meVj6k-bXXDeLZIAbC2NYRXbH6FPdzK2N6W3CEScABWg_bMBkfPeJ/s400/07.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5389420589417275570" /></a><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOXCEiTA-PuNDLI9FSGT6GcXJpKa60T4EQDRUDRviphmOuEIkll3boJ7VjiNJEZhAgHlVyFruai76-UQ6G0TThjz8T7roZT1WyTAV0vkbAF1GHVumL3wzjfpQJRzKcM4gdPWIS/s1600-h/08.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 301px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOXCEiTA-PuNDLI9FSGT6GcXJpKa60T4EQDRUDRviphmOuEIkll3boJ7VjiNJEZhAgHlVyFruai76-UQ6G0TThjz8T7roZT1WyTAV0vkbAF1GHVumL3wzjfpQJRzKcM4gdPWIS/s400/08.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5389420968882931522" /></a><br /><br />A Memorial to all those people who lost their limbs due to land mines, right outside the UN building.<br /><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhq9sdkCiSht_WW_UHJWEDvE40OsOHcFZOh0Us8YNIDiOxyzZg6e-NEZjLNyhkVvjBhxLh7jVFyocILbNvBfQ5XPIt_p9m40uMliCe7-xrq9B9XM-B3CkXv79OBa6zkNXp-qnVB/s1600-h/09.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhq9sdkCiSht_WW_UHJWEDvE40OsOHcFZOh0Us8YNIDiOxyzZg6e-NEZjLNyhkVvjBhxLh7jVFyocILbNvBfQ5XPIt_p9m40uMliCe7-xrq9B9XM-B3CkXv79OBa6zkNXp-qnVB/s400/09.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5389421342167386562" /></a><br /><br />Jet d'eau (Jet of water)<br />Apparently there was a pipe burst long ago because of which the water shot out like a fountain...but because the people of Geneva liked it so much, they just kept it that way. <br /><br />Now that I'm back home in India, I miss my life in London and my travels to Europe. I wonder what's next.Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-52865604447674070452009-10-06T14:29:00.003+05:302009-10-06T14:37:27.465+05:30The InterpreterThanks to Janice, this quote from the movie 'The Interpreter' has become one of my all time favourites:<br /><br />" The gunfire around us makes it hard to hear. <br /><br /> But the human voice is different from other sounds.<br /><br /> It can be heard over noises that bury everything else. <br /><br /> Even when it's not shouting. Even if it's just a whisper. <br /><br />Even the lowest whisper can be heard - over armies...<br /><br /> ...when it's telling the truth."Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-20338377004809233242009-08-15T19:19:00.005+05:302009-08-15T19:36:30.240+05:30Enough with the Shah Rukh Khan thingAlright, so the King Khan got stopped at Newark airport and got questioned. BIG DEAL !!!!! Who doesn't get frisked or questioned these days??? I don't understand why the media, the film industry, the government and Shah Rukh Khan himself are making a big fuss about it. <br /><br />Yes, it is upsetting and yes at times embarassing. I have been stopped plenty of times at airports to be frisked and questioned. Initially I used to think it was some form of racial abuse, but now I understand why they do it. The fact that people stop me at the airport to ask questions makes me feel safer, it makes me feel that they're doing their job. I wouldn't deny that the colour of our skin, our names or the fact that we look South Asian has nothing to do with them stopping us. But I think it is necessary. Haven't most terrorist attacks originated from our part of the world lately? They have all the reason in the world to be suspicious and cautious. Blame your own fellow men who are involved in terrorist activities. Stop blaming the poor immigration officer who was only doing his job.<br /><br />The thing is, I don't see why Shah Rukh Khan shouldn't have been stopped. A lot of people from the film industry have been found guilty of various offences, both minor and major. Besides, isn't Bollywood known to have close links with the underworld? Why then should Shah Rukh Khan make such a big fuss about being questioned? Why isn't this made a big issue when normal Indians, who do not have fame to come to their rescue, are frisked and questioned? I normally never agree with anything that Salman Khan says or does, but today he was absolutely right. Things like these are normal, given the current security concerns. There's nothing bizzare about it.<br /> <br />The West is no doubt more fearful of the Muslim world or even the 'Third world' than it has ever been in history and they have reason to be. Ambika Soni's version of 'tit-for-tat' by frisking American visitors just sounds ridiculous. Would you frisk someone only because they frisked your countrymen or would you frisk them because they posed a genuine security threat? Yes, there is a racist dimension to it, but the primary concern is security at the end of the day and I do not blame the airport officials. Get a life and move on.Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-208784516298953552009-05-29T11:15:00.003+05:302009-05-29T11:20:37.626+05:30InspiredWhere the mind is without fear and the head is held high;<br /><br />Where knowledge is free;<br /><br />Where the world has not been broken up into fragments<br /><br />by narrow domestic walls;<br /><br />Where words come out from the depth of truth;<br /><br />Where tireless striving stretches its arms towards perfection;<br /><br />Where the clear stream of reason has not lost its way<br /><br />into the dreary desert sand of dead habit;<br /><br />Where the mind is led forward by thee<br /><br />into ever-widening thought and action,<br /><br />into that heaven of freedom, my Father,<br /><br />let my country awake.<br /><br /><br />-Rabindranath Tagore<br /><br /><br />Its 7 am. Been studying since afternoon. This is possibly the only thing keeping me awake, other than the coffee of course.Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-74718734606592243512009-04-10T20:03:00.001+05:302009-04-10T20:03:46.994+05:30Euro TripI’ve been travelling across Europe for the past 3 weeks. When I started the journey I didn’t realise how super duper fantastic it would turn out to be. Paris, Berlin, Prague, Vienna, Budapest and Krakow. 6 wonderful cities, 6 very unique cultures and languages. I must say I liked Vienna and Krakow the most. Vienna mostly because it was home to Gustav Klimt and the secessionist movement and to me it seemed like a wonderful place to live in........And Krakow because of its cultural charm, history and the fact that there is so much to do there. I did like Berlin, but the fact that I was always reminded of the holocaust or the wall wherever I went wasn’t very appealing. It seemed like an apologetic city. I understand why. It is important to remember history so that we don’t risk forgetting and repeating it again.....but then again, even though Krakow has an equally gory history, there were plenty of places I could go to where memories of the holocaust weren’t always in my face. This trip made history real for me. All the statistics came alive, all the sentences in history textbooks were translated into sentiments and the people and what they felt became a reality. I am definitely going back to some of these places to spend more time there, especially Austria and Poland. After graduation perhaps.....Pictures will be up soon :)Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-49138058148074658812009-01-26T08:40:00.001+05:302009-01-26T08:40:47.326+05:30A Small UpdateThe past few months have been such a roller-coaster ride. It is the longest I’ve ever been away from home and honestly I do enjoy the independence. Just a few months at LSE have been life-changing. I know this sounds very clichéd, but it’s true. For the first time I’m truly excited about what I’m studying. The subject is something that I can lose myself in and get so involved in. I’m not going to sit and give a day by day account of everything in the past few months, but all I’ll say is that it has been an eye-opener. I always knew that I had so much to learn, but never quite really knew what it was that I had to. I still don’t know everything, but being at LSE these few months, I’m starting to realise some of them.....And I find some of my friends so inspiring, it’s hard not to learn anything from them. I’ve had so many ups and downs since I got here and I love having the freedom to take care of things myself. <br />Apart from that, the environment here is so stimulating. Dinners are filled with interesting conversations and controversial debates. I’ve already met people like Thomas Friedman and Jeffery Sachs.....How often does one get opportunities to listen to well-known people and question them in person? I’m loving this whole academic experience here. I know some people might wonder why I’m so much in awe of it because for many it isn’t really that great an experience.....But coming from a place where little was expected and where education had a completely different meaning, my mind feels liberated here. I enjoy the freedom that I’m given to have my own opinion and not be afraid to share it. I have an enormous amount of learning ahead of me and while it does seem challenging, I’m nothing, but excited about it. <br /><br />PS: I miss all of you back home. Even if I’m not in constant touch, I want you all to know that I always think of you :)Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-15631148425071876582008-09-14T02:18:00.000+05:302008-09-14T02:19:43.353+05:30Farewell ???Farewell ?<br /><br />Not yet. I know there are just 7 more days till I say goodbye to 22 years of friends, family, teachers, experiences, memories, 22 years of my life. I keep saying that it hasn’t sunk in yet, that the thought of leaving home and studying in a foreign land doesn’t seem real enough yet...But today I met my professors from college. It was the first goodbye that felt strange; it felt like a transition from my previous illusory feeling to reality – that it was time for me to leave. I then said goodbye to 3 years of WHARF, Leo and all the sweat and toil - Another subtle reminder of the future that awaits me far away from home. I tried to ignore it simply because it felt like a growing sense of desperation, anxiety but eager anticipation at the same time....... too many conflicting emotions. Then came the “Bon voyage (Son+Rup) al Bash. The farewell dinner arranged for Sonal and me by Kartik, Anuj, Preeti and Ena. It was one of the best evenings I’ve had in a while and in some way it eased me into the process of accepting the fact that it was really time to bid farewell. There were sudden brief moments during the dinner when a random thought would just pop up in my head reminding me of the need to say goodbye. Uncomfortable? Certainly not. Difficulty in expression? Yes, very much so. Even though I’ve always felt a sudden surge of emotion when I’m about to say my goodbyes, I can never get myself to cry or turn into a mumbling sentimental wreck. The only time that happened was when I left South Africa because it was too intense an experience. But yes, I experienced a similar surge of emotion tonight, but found no way to express it. All I can say perhaps is that you guys have no idea how happy I was tonight and how terribly I will miss all of you. Thank you for this wonderful evening, which was the perfect goodbye. I’m not good with saying these things, so I hope you read my blog :)<br /><br />People have been telling me for nearly 6 months now how painful the farewell will be and how much I will miss everything and everyone. Why do we need other people to make us realize things that we knew right from the beginning? Why this delayed sense of acceptance? Of accepting something inevitable that we were aware of all along? Which will be the most painful farewell of them all? Is there such a thing anyway? Aren’t all farewells tinged with a little bit of sadness?<br /><br />I have a week more to discover it or perhaps a lifetime to understand it. For now, all I can say is, I will miss my life here, but I absolutely cannot wait for the new one that is about to begin soon. It’s not goodbye yet.Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-87840331889166601162008-08-24T23:45:00.015+05:302008-08-25T01:37:26.772+05:30Religious weekendI recently got back from a super-religious trip planned by my dad. We went to practically every temple in our native village and a few others. I was initially really not keen on going, but in a way I realise that it was nice to see where I come from atleast once before I leave for London. I obviously did not enjoy the religious part of it. My thoughts on that in my next post perhaps... but the travelling bit was wonderful. So this is a brief note on some interesting parts of my journey...<br /><br />We were waiting at plaform no.5 of Thane station to catch the late night Siddheshwar express to Solapur and we were standing patiently next to this food stall at the far end of the plaform.....Thats when I noticed something<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTnuQdoRwKJhrLS7HLZKJqLHkBrvbMB5lmTHtqdVY42OUy3yTgfox8N2XCnpDjmuXTXelqUi96kidf3dpWEKHCFpzs1sMV66GK38B76cKhjBymTIqR5srD3BX_Nuk_iV8ijZ82/s1600-h/SP_A0042.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTnuQdoRwKJhrLS7HLZKJqLHkBrvbMB5lmTHtqdVY42OUy3yTgfox8N2XCnpDjmuXTXelqUi96kidf3dpWEKHCFpzs1sMV66GK38B76cKhjBymTIqR5srD3BX_Nuk_iV8ijZ82/s320/SP_A0042.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238150812279672434" /></a><br /><br /><br />I wasnt carrying a camera, so this picture taken from my phone isn't good, but notice that greyish blur somewhere near the bottom of the white plastic bag in the top compartment ? THAT blur is actually a hyper-active mouse. I was shocked !!!!! Then within a few seconds I saw another one happily nibbling onto the packets in that upper glass compartment. I couldnt resist. I had to go and tell the person running the stall. <br /><br />Me (in a very low tone) : Bhaiyya, aapke oopar wale compartment mein 2 choohe hain. <br /><br />Him : Haan madam. Maloom hai. Kya kar sakta hai hum ?<br /><br />Me : Aapko maloom hai aur aap kuch nahi kar rahe ?<br /><br />Him : Kya karega madam ? Hum nikaal ke bahar fekta hai, phir bhi waapas aata hai.<br /><br />Me : Abhi to nikaal deejiye naa. Nahi to kuch chooha marne ki dawai daal do wahan pe<br /><br />Him : Kaise madam ? Galti se dawai khaane mein ghus gaya aur customer mar gaya, to mereko hi pakdenge naa ?<br /><br />Point<br /><br />Me : Acha, to jab jab ho sake nikaalte rahiye aur ek "mouse-trap" wahan par daal deejiye ( I didnt know what the Hindi word was for that)<br /><br />Anyway, I didnt know what more to say to him, my train was arriving on the platform. My advice to you - Unless you intentionally want to fall sick, dont bother eating at stalls like these. Who knows, there might've been more mice in there...<br /><br /><br />Anyway, I couldnt sleep the entire night in the train coz some idiots were snoring away to glory. Not one, but three people were snoring...It was very rythmic, no doubt, but so very disturbing. No sleep.<br /><br />Reached Tuljhapur the next morning. That's where our 'kul-devi' is. Visited the temple....Took hours n hours to enter the sanctum sanctorum and it was a completely un-religious, un-spiritual experience for me. If anything, I was horrified, because people were throwing away banana peels inside the temple as if it were a garbage dump and there were paan stains everywhere. If this is what it means to be religious, then I do not want any part of it. Some pictures from the Tuljha Bhavani temple :<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUNvW2_zzypFR7SMkB4X1WT6Bs1NzvqfdHTDtrXo3UjFyrgMdngQb4JTBDCt7H0CwJsINlenX_oF-npeURqC2Dt2Ks-dWmxjbrymXIDYoP74lAFhIwYlLllhYUR4tIqxkFFfrA/s1600-h/SP_A0045.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUNvW2_zzypFR7SMkB4X1WT6Bs1NzvqfdHTDtrXo3UjFyrgMdngQb4JTBDCt7H0CwJsINlenX_oF-npeURqC2Dt2Ks-dWmxjbrymXIDYoP74lAFhIwYlLllhYUR4tIqxkFFfrA/s320/SP_A0045.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238154546517660882" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg47zt-gNoNHmjTU9UH4qQnPMczVmXm9eqrag4a38Km2kwWkhjS3a0dVsLUf6AlnQzzhZb3utsHEj17inyJ__eZge3LORnfpU9-J7vJR_rFRsVi-J2PfAOZgig9fNhLyx2BUG0e/s1600-h/SP_A0043.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg47zt-gNoNHmjTU9UH4qQnPMczVmXm9eqrag4a38Km2kwWkhjS3a0dVsLUf6AlnQzzhZb3utsHEj17inyJ__eZge3LORnfpU9-J7vJR_rFRsVi-J2PfAOZgig9fNhLyx2BUG0e/s320/SP_A0043.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238154551851727554" /></a><br /><br />A lot of people do this at this temple. It's some form of devotion I guess. I've never been inclined to do so. My idea of prayer is quite different from this. <br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_YraNH83Zp5LDt1SYJLBy1Gk7c3iiiZ0yk35iK0gLZG6JoHX7rIGCoDpTEV449U5TSph4I7qn7lV-uGnqLRXYn6Ef3Oa-GEcF856RxLpRkji_xOqintuf06XgxtL_4l0BKAU6/s1600-h/SP_A0044.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_YraNH83Zp5LDt1SYJLBy1Gk7c3iiiZ0yk35iK0gLZG6JoHX7rIGCoDpTEV449U5TSph4I7qn7lV-uGnqLRXYn6Ef3Oa-GEcF856RxLpRkji_xOqintuf06XgxtL_4l0BKAU6/s320/SP_A0044.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238154559205915474" /></a><br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1yDhp3PtBiIgce3268la124E4o3rDaRNFBKWjWUDxE_9w4yEcZSe8dlH-RXdR7MPG-EH-wW7ZVgHF1j_79UYl-N_zjAkxF4Rixj90wqFnpfauz_EkFi049kRo3LB66Mi7g45p/s1600-h/SP_A0050.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1yDhp3PtBiIgce3268la124E4o3rDaRNFBKWjWUDxE_9w4yEcZSe8dlH-RXdR7MPG-EH-wW7ZVgHF1j_79UYl-N_zjAkxF4Rixj90wqFnpfauz_EkFi049kRo3LB66Mi7g45p/s320/SP_A0050.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238155366063671538" /></a><br /><br />I do not like the way they slap the haldi and kumkum onto your forehead. Even if you do manage to form some sort of connection with God inspite of the crowd, the paan stains, the banana peels and the waiting, this completely kills it. My connection with God at this temple = Zero<br /><br />This is what Tuljhapur looks like :<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6hAREEgGXXxDIrDsJCV79818CFQzvubBINVOrFVjXD7uQno5LASTXkWyydbdhwvdaofzmUcKpMKPeLjfciG15aBRjLI44dWaJS9RG_etMRibHmxcMOoCGprzt_tK3JF69bgJM/s1600-h/SP_A0051.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6hAREEgGXXxDIrDsJCV79818CFQzvubBINVOrFVjXD7uQno5LASTXkWyydbdhwvdaofzmUcKpMKPeLjfciG15aBRjLI44dWaJS9RG_etMRibHmxcMOoCGprzt_tK3JF69bgJM/s320/SP_A0051.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238156036445163746" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi10EJH_kAKe7AbNgF5wlwTrLjjNddFw4rYHpgpyeYc6qOP7KfZnJSdYy5VVRFljOigWTtT-IBAx4Nh5LxPO7MiDQzknKNBZNbmUZ4QyUmq5B8k_tSd9cIXT5gkQD4m-C_5OsJ2/s1600-h/SP_A0052.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi10EJH_kAKe7AbNgF5wlwTrLjjNddFw4rYHpgpyeYc6qOP7KfZnJSdYy5VVRFljOigWTtT-IBAx4Nh5LxPO7MiDQzknKNBZNbmUZ4QyUmq5B8k_tSd9cIXT5gkQD4m-C_5OsJ2/s320/SP_A0052.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238156041519083298" /></a><br /><br />Nice town. I like the cows sitting right in the middle of the road...<br /><br />That very evening we headed to Bijapur - my native place. <br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOPUMbNPRcWrojslMPGWGLloL_Y4OZNaKd6CYodKF2_ygoJFMhZljxaDYIeDT6iDnBBYk7IEx28eI1RkYIppOhQ6yQVPpNRYyVzA8DcHFjnRcYcRLUCTLozwqROxl9Tn3URFyC/s1600-h/SP_A0053.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOPUMbNPRcWrojslMPGWGLloL_Y4OZNaKd6CYodKF2_ygoJFMhZljxaDYIeDT6iDnBBYk7IEx28eI1RkYIppOhQ6yQVPpNRYyVzA8DcHFjnRcYcRLUCTLozwqROxl9Tn3URFyC/s320/SP_A0053.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238156629718942386" /></a><br /><br />Paan stains on the inside of the bus that I was travelling in. Is it really so difficult to understand that spitting is disgusting ?<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyl3lTqZCnT0EbXydMFaY0PneknVugp4NyOT6vTf5OxlFSCwFuC0S7TtSXV3oOyBDkuUuhJhtnPzg5O1QKEbccun16_5m6t17e19ReNXaf-E9ovpraAmEcpEyfKj-9q9WS2WZx/s1600-h/SP_A0061.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyl3lTqZCnT0EbXydMFaY0PneknVugp4NyOT6vTf5OxlFSCwFuC0S7TtSXV3oOyBDkuUuhJhtnPzg5O1QKEbccun16_5m6t17e19ReNXaf-E9ovpraAmEcpEyfKj-9q9WS2WZx/s320/SP_A0061.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238156634740858946" /></a><br /><br />The landscapes however were beautiful. I felt great simply looking out of the window. I love this one especially...all the greenery with the sugarcane fields in the background. <br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDqIZX3PEjFMzQERuBck3Q-F7U9Xx_hvAIL_MlkEwG6D3TI-676KHMqLpEWgcqbb-7dDJJAMIJlybIb1wrj5gHtVT0BJzizd90OkgY6_aUc-EH214urQ-Pec3vTbwMR6EkLnrz/s1600-h/SP_A0071.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDqIZX3PEjFMzQERuBck3Q-F7U9Xx_hvAIL_MlkEwG6D3TI-676KHMqLpEWgcqbb-7dDJJAMIJlybIb1wrj5gHtVT0BJzizd90OkgY6_aUc-EH214urQ-Pec3vTbwMR6EkLnrz/s320/SP_A0071.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238156639202888946" /></a><br /><br /><br />A few pictures from Bijapur :<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwSUIUl4rxK9MVS83YIvccw0xpDfQYjCzIfr6SYNPFnc59JjV_kxPIcxFZ38i0AtmN3iZa4BP_X2LxS7viELcRFCyb2cnr6Aqdh4xmFFC8SQNu_WXs2ovqHmH-hVwCP7DJusOf/s1600-h/SP_A0055.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwSUIUl4rxK9MVS83YIvccw0xpDfQYjCzIfr6SYNPFnc59JjV_kxPIcxFZ38i0AtmN3iZa4BP_X2LxS7viELcRFCyb2cnr6Aqdh4xmFFC8SQNu_WXs2ovqHmH-hVwCP7DJusOf/s320/SP_A0055.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238157590577832770" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjd02tmroU6QYVAD03wDfMxAQin8fC7uCS_ONrrqKU6ZGSKNDyDI7ztnUCPHo5AEdvNj9Iu1DrJ1JKqxGHYtM1lEkKakTBEoe8nAjC9uQbb_DGLul_QZuFV0tT6W4dgLIrSg7xc/s1600-h/SP_A0056.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjd02tmroU6QYVAD03wDfMxAQin8fC7uCS_ONrrqKU6ZGSKNDyDI7ztnUCPHo5AEdvNj9Iu1DrJ1JKqxGHYtM1lEkKakTBEoe8nAjC9uQbb_DGLul_QZuFV0tT6W4dgLIrSg7xc/s320/SP_A0056.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238157589609880690" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLXSKZzHYCM3pOlZ4kDhHCSFOEBbChQB_9edQotfCDdM4Pc0rk2B_-f9HraMkszGwHhiwj4JAmyL0D9hlrP-w0ZJ2BzCIaPjU9BJwnNTSwo4Isd2wINIJExahbkenN3qQEL8sF/s1600-h/SP_A0057.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLXSKZzHYCM3pOlZ4kDhHCSFOEBbChQB_9edQotfCDdM4Pc0rk2B_-f9HraMkszGwHhiwj4JAmyL0D9hlrP-w0ZJ2BzCIaPjU9BJwnNTSwo4Isd2wINIJExahbkenN3qQEL8sF/s320/SP_A0057.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238157595369395538" /></a><br /><br />Buffaloes...It's very easy to spot them.<br /><br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgk95eAnFrk5YljvRj5xbwFQkEznhebntTrqClBx8zvjTGdfQut6QmuDvPd7iaJvhYe5P3AEppgJNBHU40dGBeUM3nq92FufE4TIsp3CQBznGNwVpk4PfYcdvsVZtgNrKI5sv2O/s1600-h/SP_A0058.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgk95eAnFrk5YljvRj5xbwFQkEznhebntTrqClBx8zvjTGdfQut6QmuDvPd7iaJvhYe5P3AEppgJNBHU40dGBeUM3nq92FufE4TIsp3CQBznGNwVpk4PfYcdvsVZtgNrKI5sv2O/s320/SP_A0058.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238158195690771938" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9Wb5IZYT4wt3kHeLsrtTMm0agv32UeoHWPnANfiWAEyicAfCJ8spNDW9ulHwueVEKmm3nZWb23sS4vDt-gNF9ozTm69HlfV-kr2nsQt4gxPjASxPraaaMpWS5Cd0RYWPiET76/s1600-h/SP_A0075.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9Wb5IZYT4wt3kHeLsrtTMm0agv32UeoHWPnANfiWAEyicAfCJ8spNDW9ulHwueVEKmm3nZWb23sS4vDt-gNF9ozTm69HlfV-kr2nsQt4gxPjASxPraaaMpWS5Cd0RYWPiET76/s320/SP_A0075.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238158202388488498" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhl9xYWMYbEvHS2qfg5uUoxVqL-dUEUwr3fMVL4L-rnygXDue2HAFLsldWcnRnCty-2o4Mo5MAZ_dL9V0rUnp_qvJlIiSyNbIUu97zBLsx1zR8WpfUglktb9NnYN4-gYK2GN8m3/s1600-h/SP_A0076.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhl9xYWMYbEvHS2qfg5uUoxVqL-dUEUwr3fMVL4L-rnygXDue2HAFLsldWcnRnCty-2o4Mo5MAZ_dL9V0rUnp_qvJlIiSyNbIUu97zBLsx1zR8WpfUglktb9NnYN4-gYK2GN8m3/s320/SP_A0076.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238158199888399890" /></a><br /><br /><br />Little black pigs. I think they're adorable !!! They are all over the place. You can find them everywhere and if you're not too careful, in your house too ;) <br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8t4x2Xg4U2w-N_uq-8Ugf4ar2jYiyAJQf__ObCISI4e9jRwtgFbnZiWnVH4mwOYorKjQ7dY2nyuuNI763OsMME4L3lv92laDGdAAC-8j2ANEz9vBTGQVZIDLUIUL7ziNLFlYt/s1600-h/SP_A0077.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8t4x2Xg4U2w-N_uq-8Ugf4ar2jYiyAJQf__ObCISI4e9jRwtgFbnZiWnVH4mwOYorKjQ7dY2nyuuNI763OsMME4L3lv92laDGdAAC-8j2ANEz9vBTGQVZIDLUIUL7ziNLFlYt/s320/SP_A0077.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238158583457048338" /></a><br /><br />Check out the spelling :)<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimK_sRgV1SL7D_ONEidhx9vPEYsbhhH7TyoIKS9yAyhKrkwZ60QZ6SqOO5N4rbhSrq6tCkFqSdfp_0nWubZUdnBrFU0WKIkoAY7-FkxJue1UxPFFyztDCvRX8ysMOkOqWkAost/s1600-h/SP_A0099.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimK_sRgV1SL7D_ONEidhx9vPEYsbhhH7TyoIKS9yAyhKrkwZ60QZ6SqOO5N4rbhSrq6tCkFqSdfp_0nWubZUdnBrFU0WKIkoAY7-FkxJue1UxPFFyztDCvRX8ysMOkOqWkAost/s320/SP_A0099.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238158803233140018" /></a><br /><br />Auto rickshaws run without meters in Bijapur. <br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGA_hHAfKMKzoPZHNLzG0TeqqRR93TahVYVV2NgE20Vc27nTYJEBvnVf-UU5p4j_wVigApMbZpLWI40tCscJRFgn8zynpz5qQux-1R5z9-sg9HoJ8yRf8MT-T-GDBmP-2qGn0Q/s1600-h/SP_A0085.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGA_hHAfKMKzoPZHNLzG0TeqqRR93TahVYVV2NgE20Vc27nTYJEBvnVf-UU5p4j_wVigApMbZpLWI40tCscJRFgn8zynpz5qQux-1R5z9-sg9HoJ8yRf8MT-T-GDBmP-2qGn0Q/s320/SP_A0085.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238159081523015266" /></a><br /><br />Cows lazing around in the middle of the street :)<br /><br /><br />I like these pictures, not because they're funny or anything, but because they remind me of a simpler life. It feels nice to be free of complications, rules etc etc once in a while. I wouldn't advocate too much of it though.<br /><br /><br />Some other interesting pictures :<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMmxR1JvWmSBHS_wXMco8Sr5k3U8P-t6sXrhQMKGYZBqTrvqlq6cH11EvJxOmUCITZFUfAIR-SlIUEi0glqOs6GDOksJ5GiUUq9qx-Hfb-abh976x27zOYES_pIa_866-DnQKx/s1600-h/SP_A0069.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMmxR1JvWmSBHS_wXMco8Sr5k3U8P-t6sXrhQMKGYZBqTrvqlq6cH11EvJxOmUCITZFUfAIR-SlIUEi0glqOs6GDOksJ5GiUUq9qx-Hfb-abh976x27zOYES_pIa_866-DnQKx/s320/SP_A0069.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238160209669392898" /></a><br /><br />The glittery things that you see on that suspended tray are slippers. It is believed that these slippers were actually worn by Hanuman at one point of time. This is in one of the Hanuman temples in Halagani. <br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRv4viTGK9G0DFouufOkuofxf6ltZQJZ4K65-4rahkR6ktc0ob8PKRo4y_GCpWFuyB0otVwFOAdH_DnQhFTCkpqNkcAfa75G6c2LI7SguJovNG6-LVvSGsPPlk97mHS3kKnP_s/s1600-h/SP_A0072.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRv4viTGK9G0DFouufOkuofxf6ltZQJZ4K65-4rahkR6ktc0ob8PKRo4y_GCpWFuyB0otVwFOAdH_DnQhFTCkpqNkcAfa75G6c2LI7SguJovNG6-LVvSGsPPlk97mHS3kKnP_s/s320/SP_A0072.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238160217258815394" /></a><br /><br />It is said that you should wish for something and then hold this stone with both hands. If the stone turns to the right, your wish will come true. If it turns to the left, you wish will not be fulfilled...And if it doesnt move, it implies that your wish will come true but after a long long wait.<br /><br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4tzyI9wVvNQSNBXfoeMjfmcPsSJH7DOjwCpKw6G-TUS8D6jGSephfscMUI-fR9R4lvkXngCUY8fygL8vCNb1cN1_ugoQfj0S_GyGqzzh6Zoxeq6zkwvdTueAdpjFGtWpNJhZR/s1600-h/SP_A0091.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4tzyI9wVvNQSNBXfoeMjfmcPsSJH7DOjwCpKw6G-TUS8D6jGSephfscMUI-fR9R4lvkXngCUY8fygL8vCNb1cN1_ugoQfj0S_GyGqzzh6Zoxeq6zkwvdTueAdpjFGtWpNJhZR/s320/SP_A0091.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5238160215975825554" /></a><br /><br />I loved this !!! This was a Shiva temple in Shivgiri with this huge structure. It looks really elegant and dignified. <br /><br />Thats all for now. I have one other temple to visit in Basar which will be a few weeks from now. That would officially complete my religious adventures before I leave for London...4 weeks more to go :)Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-67922338983533968972008-08-04T00:31:00.001+05:302008-08-25T01:37:31.710+05:30Birthday BluesIt’s official now. I don’t like my birthdays anymore. For some inexplicable reason, I feel miserable during my birthday. Today was supposed to be a fun day, to meet with friends, catch up and simply enjoy myself...but I didn’t. For reasons unknown, I was feeling extremely low and was in no mood to enjoy. Even yesterday was alright, nothing special. I thought birthdays were supposed to be fun, something that one should look forward to and be excited about. What is it with me and birthdays ?Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-22100586246687748972008-08-01T00:36:00.007+05:302008-08-01T00:52:42.042+05:30Happy IWE Anniversary !!!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhEj2hYgTqDB7LZ19kvTAuUUsRv_4DGZ3Oy-Hrptwv_X6Sy3HcoT9xMLXOK5AK0lMvPn_uNIUm5bavvBP3IOmSaA9S8enxf0u-DWNLYuu8bsamn6T9HXm7m0v6DKTr4Q5CHGPMl/s1600-h/057Jo.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhEj2hYgTqDB7LZ19kvTAuUUsRv_4DGZ3Oy-Hrptwv_X6Sy3HcoT9xMLXOK5AK0lMvPn_uNIUm5bavvBP3IOmSaA9S8enxf0u-DWNLYuu8bsamn6T9HXm7m0v6DKTr4Q5CHGPMl/s400/057Jo.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5229258720686619602" /></a><br /><br />Dear All,<br /><br />It has been 4 years since that wonderful experience. The IWE was without doubt the best thing to happen to me ever… And even inspite of having some interesting experiences over the past 4 years, the IWE is still my favourite memory of all. <br /><br />As clichéd as this might sound, for me the IWE was a journey of self discovery. Every decision that I’ve made since then has been influenced by the way I shaped up as a person at the IWE in South Africa..... and I cannot be grateful enough for it. I never realised that this was happening, but it was indeed. The best things that have happened to me in these 4 years have been greatly influenced by the IWE and the things I learnt there.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiPjtMtiJu6gZoJwDxUUw90PwGZMdXpbuPXggJvIxd5ggiSzjeKOfe4R2Sdlg0O2Zaylt437MEdlXt-XpmytwWQDm12r9QZ6jwH1LLj9L2OetCpCDTSDdwzntFokE33_8_GbThG/s1600-h/all+of+usssss.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiPjtMtiJu6gZoJwDxUUw90PwGZMdXpbuPXggJvIxd5ggiSzjeKOfe4R2Sdlg0O2Zaylt437MEdlXt-XpmytwWQDm12r9QZ6jwH1LLj9L2OetCpCDTSDdwzntFokE33_8_GbThG/s320/all+of+usssss.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5229257972048288466" /></a><br /><br /><br />The best part about the IWE ? The people I met. I can’t believe that we’re still in touch after so long, inspite of the distance and prolonged silence. All of you made me see things from a different perspective and I had something to learn from every single one of you. <br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgV9rtRDk23W0X199JqlHvPUFg2kg8NpiqrDoZzM55YJ7vWn9B6a8-l_93DRNeiUMgDfoqjojTa8agr-c8qBrpooYvuoJ0s0JNNRvYa89nLrMsB-MVJk-1BwOiXSMIjRlaOt5v6/s1600-h/042Jo+All.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgV9rtRDk23W0X199JqlHvPUFg2kg8NpiqrDoZzM55YJ7vWn9B6a8-l_93DRNeiUMgDfoqjojTa8agr-c8qBrpooYvuoJ0s0JNNRvYa89nLrMsB-MVJk-1BwOiXSMIjRlaOt5v6/s320/042Jo+All.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5229258448972051250" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br />To Harini and Gini – It’s surprising that all 3 of us are so very different and yet we get along so well. The unusual friendship that we’ve grown to discover over these years is something I will truly cherish.....And also, the fact that the 3 of us are still in touch with Fran makes me feel so happy :)<br /><br />To everyone whom I’ve met since the IWE – Bea, Nithiya, Gini, Rachel, Chiharuko and Hyunmin – when I met you guys, it was the happiest I had felt in years.....And when I had to say goodbye yet again, it felt horrible !<br /><br />To all 51 of you– Harini, Gini, Beatrice, Cheung, Panda, Esther, Cathy, Cedric, Kit, Kimmey, Hyunmin, Minsueng, Jung yoon, Nithiya, Rachel, Kelene, Shadwin, Neo, Liezle, Tsheki, Tshego, Pommie, Richy, Didi, Bee, Rea, Tintin, Ashley, Gayle, Nicole, Emma, Sophia, Kintan, Frisda, Teddy, Benz, Mareya, Pim, Sarah, Ahmed, Long, Ming, Grace, Violette, Chiharuko, Shie, Tappei, Holly, Max, Dung and Huong – I miss you all very much and “Ek us life vir jao”<br /><br />And of course to complete the Ubungani family – Hanneke, Johan , Zuzette, Pieter, Luzego, Tracey and Marijtie - I wish that someday I’ll be back in the South African wilderness, sitting by the campfire, singing and talking to all of you.<br /><br />Love xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo<br /><br />PS : NokShanti is still the best. Undisputable :)<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhD3b0VK0JqpiuCL_dSNoMZgfbPGG9W9khewMVeTamg0Vv3oLTz_RON7QeEkAqRr0FTju61t5MYvWGprLnvbNVmA-JWH_v2fx0i1gwFmeb-owj7o2Hz4QxOBEU1IBaLri7V8MBX/s1600-h/hyun+009.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhD3b0VK0JqpiuCL_dSNoMZgfbPGG9W9khewMVeTamg0Vv3oLTz_RON7QeEkAqRr0FTju61t5MYvWGprLnvbNVmA-JWH_v2fx0i1gwFmeb-owj7o2Hz4QxOBEU1IBaLri7V8MBX/s320/hyun+009.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5229259175284141250" /></a>Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-27047304400544631012008-07-26T00:59:00.002+05:302008-08-01T00:58:01.993+05:30My HSBC Scholarship ExperienceSo, I won a full scholarship from HSBC 2 days ago and it still hasn’t sunk in yet. I just felt like writing a little about it because it has been one of the best interview experiences ever.<br />In the first week of April, I had jus received my rejection for a GSS (Graduate Support Scheme) from LSE and I was very disappointed. At that very moment the HSBC scholarships were announced and in frustration I filled up my form within minutes, obviously not expecting to be shortlisted because I knew how competitive it was…but to my surprise I did get shortlisted and that’s when I started hyper-ventilating. After 2 months of freaking out I finally had my interviews.<br /><br /><strong>First round of interviews :</strong><br /><br />16 of us were shortlisted out of 327 applicants – Chinmaya, Aastha, Surbhi, Shruti, Vrinda, Nimisha, Parul, Karan, Rohan, Navnit, Shahana, Garima, Kamla, Rashmi, Dia and Me.<br />We were called to the HSBC office at 8:30 am on the 22nd of July. This was supposed to be the first round of interviews with internal HSBC panel. I was so nervous that I felt numb and especially so after interacting with some of the applicants because they were all so brilliant and had accomplished so much at such a young age. Koninika Mitra from the HR department was extremely genial and supportive and kind of helped reduce some of the stress.<br /><br />I think I was the fourth person to be interviewed by the head of Corporate sustainability and head of Commercial Banking I think at HSBC. While it was a friendly interview I was asked a lot of questions on present policies and my opinions on them and how in my opinion could certain issues be solved. Smooth interview. I didn’t feel like I gave any stupid answer, but I wasn’t convinced that I had given it my best shot either. It lasted around 20-25 minutes. I was nervous till the end. Finally after lunch, 8 of our names were called since we had been shortlisted for the final round of interviews – Vrinda, Chinmaya, Surbhi, Aastha, Rohan, Nimisha, Shruti and Myself. I was happy that I had been shortlisted, but probably a 100 times more nervous.<br /><br /><br /><strong>The Final Interview :</strong><br /><br />23rd July was supposed to be the final and deciding round of interviews with the external panel. The panel consisted of Mr. Pride- Country director of British Council in India, Mrs. Indu Shahani – Sheriff of Mumbai and Principal of H.R. College, Mr. Govindraj Ethiraj – famous journalist, Mrs. Pheroza Godrej – Environmentalist and educationist, Abha Narayan Lamba – famous conservation architect and there was one observer – Mrs. Malini Thadani- head of Corporate sustainability at HSBC.<br /><br />The big names in the panel really scared me, but at the same I was excited that I would actually get to meet them. I generally read about them in the papers, so getting to meet them and talk to them was a very big deal for me. I told myself that even if I didn’t get this scholarship, it would be totally worth it because of the interaction with these amazing people. <br />So again, I had to report at the Oberoi at 8:30 am. I was the second person to be interviewed. I cant remember how many bottles of water I drank and how many times I visited the bathroom.....it still did not quell my nervousness. <br />So, I enter the interview room. The setting was informal. We all sat around a table. The panel was sipping coffee, having cookies. All eyes on me. Oh my God !!!!! I sat next to Mrs. Thadani. Mrs. Shahani congratulated me on my university rank. Dead silence at the table after I said Good morning and blah blah blah. Finally Mr. Pride kicked off by asking me a question. The interview was a mix of personal and academic questions, current affairs, policy issues, my opinion on certain developments and my purpose in life. At this interview there were many questions that I had no answer to and I said so and at certain times I was rambling (I still feel a little stupid about that). I disagreed twice with Abha Narayan Lamba and I’m not sure if she was too happy about it. Govindraj Ethiraj was furiously scribbling notes in his notepad and asked me just 2 questions or so. I was completely overwhelmed by Mrs. Godrej and felt like a star-struck fan. Well, after lots of questions and nearly 30-35 minutes I was finally done. It was over. Nothing more that I could do. I walked out of the room feeling a little apprehensive because I wasn’t sure if that was my best performance. At the same time I must say, the panelists were incredibly nice to me. They did not grill me in a derogatory way and respected every opinion of mine even if it were different from theirs. I felt good about myself after the interview and so did the others. There was a general ‘feel-good’ atmosphere after every interview. <br /><br />The wait is the hardest part I think..... And to be honest I was really intimidated by every other candidate. They had had more academic training than me, knew more than me and could rattle off theories like Bollywood songs. I felt a little silly actually.<br /><br />Anyway, after everyones interviews and a few more visits to the bathroom, we finally left for lunch...And throughout I couldn’t stop thinking about my responses and what I should’ve said and what I shouldn’t have said. Oh the agony of waiting !!! I showed some of them around the Jehangir art gallery and then returned to the Ritz hotel and within no time, I was fast asleep on Vrinda’s bed. <br /><br /><br /><strong>The Award Function :</strong><br /><br />At around 6 pm we all left for the British Council auditorium at Nariman point where the award ceremony was to be held. The place was full, people from HSBC, British Council, NGO groups, students, us. In the beginning there was a panel discussion moderated by Mini Menon on education, leadership etc. It was very nicely done. After a short presentation on HSBC’s social initiatives, it was time for the awards to be announced. Heart pounding, sweaty palms, dry mouth, numb feeling, everything condensed into those few minutes. <br />The first award went to Rohan. Lots of clapping (mainly to relieve the tension locked inside me). I did not expect my name to be called out the second time. I was in complete disbelief when my name was called out. OH MY GOD !!!!!!!!! And it was done in pure Oscar style, with a background score and cameras following me till the stage once my name was announced. I received the award from Naina Lal Kidwai !!!!!! Oh my god, oh my god, oh my god. How many people my age actually get to even see her ??? Best moment of this entire process, especially when she told me that she now expects great things of me. Oh my god !!!What followed was madness, hugs from everywhere congratulatory handshakes, photographs, recorded interview. Wow. It was way too overwhelming.<br /><br /><br /><strong>The Overall Experience :</strong><br /><br />I loved the entire process for the simple fact that they made us all feel really good about ourselves. It was a confidence booster, even for those who didn’t win the scholarship.....And the kind of relationship we shared with the other candidates was amazing. There was no negative competition and strangely I find myself very attached to some of them. I hope they get the funding they need and make it to the UK so that they will be around next year as well. Nimisha won a DFID scholarship, so she will definitely be there :) <br />I just am so very grateful to Koninika first of all because they eased the process for us and calmed us when it was most needed.....And of course I have no idea how to thank the panel and HSBC for this amazing opportunity. I do not know what the future holds for me, but I do know that I’m going to make the best of this scholarship and work as hard as I can.<br /><br />This is surreal. It hasn’t sunk in yet. I’m relieved, happy, elated, excited, nervous, everything. <br /><br /><br /><br /><strong>The HSBC Scholarship programme :</strong><br /><br />The HSBC scholarship programme has been active for the past 6 years. This year was the seventh year. Each year 2 scholars from all over the country are selected to join colleges at the University of Oxford , Cambridge and London. It is a fully funded scholarship up to a maximum of ₤25,000 per year. Check this website for more details :<br />http://www.banking.hsbc.co.in/in/aboutus/scholar/index.htm<br /><br /><br /><br />I’m off to bed now. I haven’t slept in weeks and now thanks to this scholarship I can enjoy my last few weeks in India, before I leave for London. I ♥ HSBC :)Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-36714796451600311972008-07-13T02:24:00.004+05:302008-08-01T00:48:50.860+05:30Am I really 21 ?My parents' generation were probably just worried about passing exams or getting married or wondering which bus to take home when they were 21. I do all of that, but there's just so much more to worry about. I can't believe I'm 21 years old. People my age are NOT supposed to be so tensed and worried. Right now I'm worried sick about financing my education. I do still have one scholarship interview lined up and a couple of results pending, but they're just making me so nervous !!! The possibility of not getting any of these scholarships is scary and even my performance at the pending interview is worrisome. I am no doubt excited to go to LSE and have the best(est) academic experience that I've ever had till date, but WITHOUT worrying SO MUCH !!! I'm just freaked out and I need a break. When will the first week of August come ??? Thats when everything will be crystal clear...AUGUST !!!!!!!!!!!!Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-32764145105171485462008-07-10T02:21:00.050+05:302008-07-10T03:30:48.401+05:30My Experiments with FoodIt has been one year since I got back from Malaysia and I'm finally putting up some pictures. These are some of the things I'd eaten there, which I've been boasting about for so long.<br /><br />Background story : I'm supposed to be a pure vegetarian. When I got to Malaysia and asked for vegetarian food, I was given tofu (which I absolutely detest).....Finally, after being fed up by the so-called vegetarian food, I didnt bother and ate anything and everything that filled my stomach...Some of it was yummmm, some were disgusting and in some cases, I had no idea what was going into my mouth... So here are some pictures of more or less everything I ate during my 3 months in Malaysia :<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgj_eTZI8dyxmAQKW1tM15CILOYnWXpPRkLnT0x-HEh8GuRobtt-PfavbAlcmcaihlN5w5aW5uYpBMS4pHohIwy1RpMtaw75mlbiQdSHI63La_pHaS4FQyn9CAejojvSg9Futqq/s1600-h/001.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgj_eTZI8dyxmAQKW1tM15CILOYnWXpPRkLnT0x-HEh8GuRobtt-PfavbAlcmcaihlN5w5aW5uYpBMS4pHohIwy1RpMtaw75mlbiQdSHI63La_pHaS4FQyn9CAejojvSg9Futqq/s320/001.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221120910408385202" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOEjltpcPd1j3AmJHu-4lZ0xICcWRQ__4fQPXCh9XC284RjkcsXHaZidZnUXdcplXXc_SACFewFAAF33hi89r2isgnQbuaFGVQXOENtrGWS-Rg0Qno1ez41HRxUGFkWo2QT4B5/s1600-h/002.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOEjltpcPd1j3AmJHu-4lZ0xICcWRQ__4fQPXCh9XC284RjkcsXHaZidZnUXdcplXXc_SACFewFAAF33hi89r2isgnQbuaFGVQXOENtrGWS-Rg0Qno1ez41HRxUGFkWo2QT4B5/s320/002.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221121075143809858" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEik-gCkDXNI_sujimYQdfN8nPSAJr50Hq8jnlhmcdOsCfgDRWltfaenPry05HDlnoRvsEtyIfzNOHhaeActaBIH9NWmOPygFQPaGLSecUyVVU1V86gKjMqjP-XYzspcqU8-kueO/s1600-h/003.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEik-gCkDXNI_sujimYQdfN8nPSAJr50Hq8jnlhmcdOsCfgDRWltfaenPry05HDlnoRvsEtyIfzNOHhaeActaBIH9NWmOPygFQPaGLSecUyVVU1V86gKjMqjP-XYzspcqU8-kueO/s320/003.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221121176864112162" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsgG89l-CUTOjq66l9ZWRVJylDNw2ATN6ewI-vJ2MyY4WRrMe8W9d98cQ3nWMpJJQaLm1qoZOU6aF6xkaKF50rcQb7iSO9yks3QhIj-76gB3GSa8GMjbkkDApQ72y4KvGdIInY/s1600-h/005.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsgG89l-CUTOjq66l9ZWRVJylDNw2ATN6ewI-vJ2MyY4WRrMe8W9d98cQ3nWMpJJQaLm1qoZOU6aF6xkaKF50rcQb7iSO9yks3QhIj-76gB3GSa8GMjbkkDApQ72y4KvGdIInY/s320/005.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221121348796202418" /></a><br />All of this was SO sweet. I had a sucrose overdose !!! And this was just week 1. I dont know why Malaysians put so much groundnut and coconut in every dish. It gets annoying you know.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4ihritRv1mDjjyXhySzsXCzJCsjferU3x-g6tfT0Uotg_NZeHGj_OlzTgxeuhl0kC3CKkbeZXbMUEd1WW-HZDZRQAfieiQTFVMrE33k_Mwbdq5m4dSPckkcMuKgiMQ3QuQZRB/s1600-h/004.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4ihritRv1mDjjyXhySzsXCzJCsjferU3x-g6tfT0Uotg_NZeHGj_OlzTgxeuhl0kC3CKkbeZXbMUEd1WW-HZDZRQAfieiQTFVMrE33k_Mwbdq5m4dSPckkcMuKgiMQ3QuQZRB/s320/004.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221121751639585682" /></a><br />Roti Canai...The only reason i survived in Malaysia for so long. <br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9ZZKfH1V2QaLGpSMt6DE9fVP5vvBfnBb2Q_rAa-Cc9Ppvo_zVhOcYrQM233DJEpQYcabhQZnbqfTEoXNMvS_9OWVTNUTqATKgnIrLPnaahvUWgcjnpxQoXWNrqNF1iqZYG0qj/s1600-h/008.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9ZZKfH1V2QaLGpSMt6DE9fVP5vvBfnBb2Q_rAa-Cc9Ppvo_zVhOcYrQM233DJEpQYcabhQZnbqfTEoXNMvS_9OWVTNUTqATKgnIrLPnaahvUWgcjnpxQoXWNrqNF1iqZYG0qj/s320/008.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221121984220876082" /></a><br />Roti something...<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh78PqaHSVePO6ePkgrAvnV-BaqGevKdzXH4CHVNfyjla9LApPexzyluTE0fXYHImFZTDAsoxvJoJdEpIUHHjIgtY1SUpn3pcKNyO0CjmCsGgWm0lclzlTmNHjRKWBAxnceEJjJ/s1600-h/006.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh78PqaHSVePO6ePkgrAvnV-BaqGevKdzXH4CHVNfyjla9LApPexzyluTE0fXYHImFZTDAsoxvJoJdEpIUHHjIgtY1SUpn3pcKNyO0CjmCsGgWm0lclzlTmNHjRKWBAxnceEJjJ/s320/006.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221122182446507010" /></a><br />They serve juice like that everywhere...Whatever happened to regular glasses<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGCOv9K1xd9nUTKlMhiZUH_Lz7xDlMG-o9X5vydAp5lYN411SEpNSn4DE5VaOD96O8gQh8Lmro35grYFVVFHOKkqF1dzvDuwZTTx-XV5WV0ieCStaJCyCryFxJeBUEO9-BWibR/s1600-h/007.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGCOv9K1xd9nUTKlMhiZUH_Lz7xDlMG-o9X5vydAp5lYN411SEpNSn4DE5VaOD96O8gQh8Lmro35grYFVVFHOKkqF1dzvDuwZTTx-XV5WV0ieCStaJCyCryFxJeBUEO9-BWibR/s320/007.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221122407789405762" /></a><br />Me secretly sipping dal at a McDonalds outlet...I think this was week 1...still wasnt used to meat...so Vivien bought roti and dal from some Indian place, poured the dal into a McDonalds cup and instructed me to eat it quietly so as to not make anyone suspicious. What better way to eat dal than sip it<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuFITnJoSLYdu7Ts_JVKqtiMRACSfurPU4Pr-PttLk_xV1AcG6t5UnIwzPETwAgbDr6EaEFuOjYp9FGI4i4ErXr-1WpQKNJ1iCQqf56tLtAX1x9CDvneynMoxeCHgpRSbGyBkg/s1600-h/009.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuFITnJoSLYdu7Ts_JVKqtiMRACSfurPU4Pr-PttLk_xV1AcG6t5UnIwzPETwAgbDr6EaEFuOjYp9FGI4i4ErXr-1WpQKNJ1iCQqf56tLtAX1x9CDvneynMoxeCHgpRSbGyBkg/s320/009.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221123090081749410" /></a><br />Hokkien noodles... This was not good...at all. Period.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCqh_CEa3aDDgUTye6G6EVWFSL_nQJfV3iSnDBc5ddt05eMgq550SRoIFIGu2WAQLIjwtoEY13LAYh8KEcrUK_mzZ7RP_XroqwK4Xc3nznk82vjSg3UVQddXD0qAsi5jEn6wTn/s1600-h/010.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCqh_CEa3aDDgUTye6G6EVWFSL_nQJfV3iSnDBc5ddt05eMgq550SRoIFIGu2WAQLIjwtoEY13LAYh8KEcrUK_mzZ7RP_XroqwK4Xc3nznk82vjSg3UVQddXD0qAsi5jEn6wTn/s320/010.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221123336815859394" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiw-df6eduwFAK1ub21Obt-MQ6ElPw1e20TPg0qJmOmZvmIHfS1kP3-qXpQ6l_9g_8D9Gw40XdxeXxVD7e4M6c8siZy3AH9Blm4GxCij6G3FrdtksbrxA4tD17sYi4V8m4YumVL/s1600-h/011.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiw-df6eduwFAK1ub21Obt-MQ6ElPw1e20TPg0qJmOmZvmIHfS1kP3-qXpQ6l_9g_8D9Gw40XdxeXxVD7e4M6c8siZy3AH9Blm4GxCij6G3FrdtksbrxA4tD17sYi4V8m4YumVL/s320/011.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221123463322491202" /></a><br />Ice kacang...not meant for me..... They put crushed ice with some coloured flavoured liquid (very much like our ice golas) into a bowl. Then they add semi-solid steamed corn, groundnuts, some slimy green things..... and its just not my idea of the perfect dessert. Malaysians love it and I just cant seem to understand why. Why groundnuts in everything !?!?!?!<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTQPnhcLcLW3fpsZXHbS0vkmIWogCn9svfZLHaaL31ncuORmCaBj9hvIqpvstFBcfrpZEJUf1CY7pPJbNFJ9VsM7NiIl-krF4hqvY4njghLfMC3YiUkKl7VLIPox7zw8Owof1L/s1600-h/012.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTQPnhcLcLW3fpsZXHbS0vkmIWogCn9svfZLHaaL31ncuORmCaBj9hvIqpvstFBcfrpZEJUf1CY7pPJbNFJ9VsM7NiIl-krF4hqvY4njghLfMC3YiUkKl7VLIPox7zw8Owof1L/s320/012.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221124022644768402" /></a><br />As disgusting at this may look, I actually liked this. Really good chicken, piping hot with sticky rice and chinese green tea.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUqzFO5ktk2MxcUWtoPVUsAWI9ILBHSAaEGOtShe_zRI8dpxlfZ3qnzA22MXBxdZ0pz_l5kWFHN5vGudVj4r9QPXYg8Ot3-IGNxtuS6nwdKZ8KZBTuYmo5KsKl11WZM0ajH26R/s1600-h/013.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUqzFO5ktk2MxcUWtoPVUsAWI9ILBHSAaEGOtShe_zRI8dpxlfZ3qnzA22MXBxdZ0pz_l5kWFHN5vGudVj4r9QPXYg8Ot3-IGNxtuS6nwdKZ8KZBTuYmo5KsKl11WZM0ajH26R/s320/013.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221124286161049618" /></a><br />This is us eating that chicken that you see above.....Look how happy I am. I really did enjoy that meal. <br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhplznaYi_AEWu6FN4iK6QOKEdTmsBSPqOgEQDDD4yj2dgeZx2gjrY6iQ0JTarTbtcicHS0WKAaFNDzxDFa50D-5SXzV1ti2IA_CnxEjG4dnLN0yJDUYOgehmg-uDnRA55cXlMs/s1600-h/014.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhplznaYi_AEWu6FN4iK6QOKEdTmsBSPqOgEQDDD4yj2dgeZx2gjrY6iQ0JTarTbtcicHS0WKAaFNDzxDFa50D-5SXzV1ti2IA_CnxEjG4dnLN0yJDUYOgehmg-uDnRA55cXlMs/s320/014.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221124549482285586" /></a><br />Roasted chicken with salad, curry and rice. Whatever<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZDV7HqYdZgUll5Ncrsln7h9EzVr0MN4OCal0lxqxTGughZw9habQbo59nyHzyxKTK9RPoYZgEyF4rFFHrJ4omklSBAcpxIbNDWMf1zbmJfHfiGB8PsbjIy4zK_sVcnFiNlknL/s1600-h/015.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZDV7HqYdZgUll5Ncrsln7h9EzVr0MN4OCal0lxqxTGughZw9habQbo59nyHzyxKTK9RPoYZgEyF4rFFHrJ4omklSBAcpxIbNDWMf1zbmJfHfiGB8PsbjIy4zK_sVcnFiNlknL/s320/015.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221124743423125650" /></a><br />Rambutans i think...Yummy tropical fruit. You know I had durians too and I actually liked it. Most people hate it. I publicly announce it - I LOVE DURIANS !!!!!<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnlzZMWoDWlUgeEMrFtgGlBUWI0Qb-kCw3-yLXwtHqSWF5jM5OkyCjUhyphenhyphenV9Q51mnxPPHyHQNGEplT_F6lfWB4Zng5V7oVfC5GgQ-ldZtV3GpuqrQMKFO0kDpxpNGqDmLUM6nq2/s1600-h/016.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnlzZMWoDWlUgeEMrFtgGlBUWI0Qb-kCw3-yLXwtHqSWF5jM5OkyCjUhyphenhyphenV9Q51mnxPPHyHQNGEplT_F6lfWB4Zng5V7oVfC5GgQ-ldZtV3GpuqrQMKFO0kDpxpNGqDmLUM6nq2/s320/016.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221124914474100194" /></a><br />Street food. Again lots of coconut !!!<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh6DRKX7SkipExbmHS4ydRBFpNlwRuOOuxzWnDMFUhfMJ4a6gwhF_dFOCm0FU61Ybhc_0lQl3lW_721QW39Am0qIXLl20UsiNpbLWHofB5G-Jhrn_PMve4sHOapfLT9qqZ3qw3b/s1600-h/017.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh6DRKX7SkipExbmHS4ydRBFpNlwRuOOuxzWnDMFUhfMJ4a6gwhF_dFOCm0FU61Ybhc_0lQl3lW_721QW39Am0qIXLl20UsiNpbLWHofB5G-Jhrn_PMve4sHOapfLT9qqZ3qw3b/s320/017.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221125149107657922" /></a><br />Some more street food. Baby Octopus sautey. Ok fine, I didn't actually eat this. I just took a picture. I got very close to buying this though. I was on some sort of an culinary experimental rampage. This was after some 6 weeks i guess :)<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCHPmNd82LCPQiNDoyvwPt-4izKWTJ_pzh5xknP3xW-l9F5NZsRDczzpdzsOJAgpM4cu6AT6S9W6Y3Oolly1mtUNUVHa_iqygvXFOnZk-VJSPFdas0bdzrhvCHFgerH1z_al94/s1600-h/018.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCHPmNd82LCPQiNDoyvwPt-4izKWTJ_pzh5xknP3xW-l9F5NZsRDczzpdzsOJAgpM4cu6AT6S9W6Y3Oolly1mtUNUVHa_iqygvXFOnZk-VJSPFdas0bdzrhvCHFgerH1z_al94/s320/018.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221125676768492658" /></a><br />Pau. Ohhhhhh, my favourite Malaysian mini snack. Its kinda like vada pav...only the stuffing is much better... and the outside whitish bun is amazingly soft and yum. Different flavoured stuffings also. Heaven !!!<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimJvJ7p7v2-CUfVcKr7IEHako4fe_6u_irFfAtE9MMtJSq60wVkIrp3g4XxjlkD77kT_uvOZxSH8fpyJEwOzXq0ju90I-cLPCJH07mNNiTRH9GGF9SdTkhfglh01YFmo6r2jv9/s1600-h/019.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimJvJ7p7v2-CUfVcKr7IEHako4fe_6u_irFfAtE9MMtJSq60wVkIrp3g4XxjlkD77kT_uvOZxSH8fpyJEwOzXq0ju90I-cLPCJH07mNNiTRH9GGF9SdTkhfglh01YFmo6r2jv9/s320/019.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221126130893094642" /></a><br />Nando's chicken. Not bad. <br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8yMkFV0sz6CTN9ZFpiFbXftCKwOWJ1M8HE2TbCj87eDxp_OxGVQiU1COq91u1wG4n5vtbRdG4PfbBr9C45I8T26auB3JcaV_AD3BRQWiTFk1OOGiOb-bQHVKkWlI88m1vtvHs/s1600-h/020.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8yMkFV0sz6CTN9ZFpiFbXftCKwOWJ1M8HE2TbCj87eDxp_OxGVQiU1COq91u1wG4n5vtbRdG4PfbBr9C45I8T26auB3JcaV_AD3BRQWiTFk1OOGiOb-bQHVKkWlI88m1vtvHs/s320/020.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221126365119851010" /></a><br />Nasi goreng (fried rice)with chicken, salad and pickles. Without doubt the best meal I had at any Malaysian restaurant. A big thank you to Firdaus's mom who took us out for lunch that day.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZHPtS1F-4w0hPwEpHL17D86NfqLHWy6Jj_M5NDzD6r63XDAaSAifm2gMA9rRNVE10zR8yBeBQvGNrFAox-NV0sP7nDzfgG-wOgRk7KVWBxzYM-8H7k6zzAmL1LHbvhuiGLLYo/s1600-h/021.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZHPtS1F-4w0hPwEpHL17D86NfqLHWy6Jj_M5NDzD6r63XDAaSAifm2gMA9rRNVE10zR8yBeBQvGNrFAox-NV0sP7nDzfgG-wOgRk7KVWBxzYM-8H7k6zzAmL1LHbvhuiGLLYo/s320/021.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221126800956043250" /></a><br />I have no idea what this is. Not too fit for consumption.<br /><br /> <br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiaVhhCCkxbssf5mhh4bHy7xY8f46TRAxFwSQDXlvADBJ0CiV5pxer7BzvvLTgd4yc2e0S6yvsJjLNhWloAaXJHGPpMaNPOunH9H0zDG6Sdyzfn9j67-GvuHJ2NmEwPlKPnYdKa/s1600-h/022.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiaVhhCCkxbssf5mhh4bHy7xY8f46TRAxFwSQDXlvADBJ0CiV5pxer7BzvvLTgd4yc2e0S6yvsJjLNhWloAaXJHGPpMaNPOunH9H0zDG6Sdyzfn9j67-GvuHJ2NmEwPlKPnYdKa/s320/022.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221127047761317730" /></a><br />Thai pineapple rice. Nice.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6tWrB2wPk8I1vlqIQmhxwm1ogBIQTdLitcAStvEeYc6M1DaTyU-BohgnwjO5uJs_FHv07SWkO8F88netOLwe2zWEMCesNnYxexsPZwHglwbYcN88Lh8YhH1gFXLjtpdeUQLHg/s1600-h/023.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6tWrB2wPk8I1vlqIQmhxwm1ogBIQTdLitcAStvEeYc6M1DaTyU-BohgnwjO5uJs_FHv07SWkO8F88netOLwe2zWEMCesNnYxexsPZwHglwbYcN88Lh8YhH1gFXLjtpdeUQLHg/s320/023.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221127186457684178" /></a><br />Japanese sushi and other seafood. I didnt have all of it. It was ok I guess.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5pSdr7CbUymavRZS-LZTDxCduJbmDDWrrmSUnGHv5Nrm89yJ7ibQFh-WyQFnpx6Vs1gD2UphbU6srHLbKzZQTIOmJ65C2m-7Ij97WyDkmNiNkIBlANF0kw9_KUIZ_cKt2twpc/s1600-h/024.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5pSdr7CbUymavRZS-LZTDxCduJbmDDWrrmSUnGHv5Nrm89yJ7ibQFh-WyQFnpx6Vs1gD2UphbU6srHLbKzZQTIOmJ65C2m-7Ij97WyDkmNiNkIBlANF0kw9_KUIZ_cKt2twpc/s320/024.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221127452645111282" /></a><br />The protruding fish tail put me off.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSqL9bmsXFVGqjUPzjL_buMONXiT6HDUqxXxqJezIn9eY74TOhbPcJ-91lRemgstsXwux73ISOeGjOwydZ0DXaUxiojfRYHcd3yBceFKfnWoXw_5AIZdpfD54XP1dWWJz3_d52/s1600-h/025.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSqL9bmsXFVGqjUPzjL_buMONXiT6HDUqxXxqJezIn9eY74TOhbPcJ-91lRemgstsXwux73ISOeGjOwydZ0DXaUxiojfRYHcd3yBceFKfnWoXw_5AIZdpfD54XP1dWWJz3_d52/s320/025.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221127665281068210" /></a><br />Yummy Korean side dishes. I LOVE Kim Cheeeeeeeeee...Slurp :P<br /><br /> <br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbafXstSBmIerqYy0NDkGm1wof7OO143YVaVxt_RvTzdGK-LQqxBCFRhEMIGKIOAGB3kWqzNGgcg8BqvybGOym2b-7WqmvDmnsZudbpc_5PlWeM0XqO9YMX8ieynJ9eHcTPazk/s1600-h/026.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbafXstSBmIerqYy0NDkGm1wof7OO143YVaVxt_RvTzdGK-LQqxBCFRhEMIGKIOAGB3kWqzNGgcg8BqvybGOym2b-7WqmvDmnsZudbpc_5PlWeM0XqO9YMX8ieynJ9eHcTPazk/s320/026.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221127912427050034" /></a><br />Cold wheat noodles. Korean of course.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUwM2exeK2voSS5od3u-u7kQ8S1uAaBFrgGQE26O7N2vFD-UHppo24_fBHjoSNfQVRu7q_4oI4jnpR2G5q4cfQDdwaUhGL7he94Cm6IKNb7LT3b0L5HqclNZAKgP2YJLTN_xss/s1600-h/027.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUwM2exeK2voSS5od3u-u7kQ8S1uAaBFrgGQE26O7N2vFD-UHppo24_fBHjoSNfQVRu7q_4oI4jnpR2G5q4cfQDdwaUhGL7he94Cm6IKNb7LT3b0L5HqclNZAKgP2YJLTN_xss/s320/027.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221128053781186290" /></a><br />After the waiter cut my noodles with a scissor. <br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_aNf0ZBURVIYIJw0f0uJ4Q_tqyeHZUR8k5YUs1QE-QXzAkOOZdDoEypv64szezI0kmllBX2z-l7y9h8x8i_Psaugr7z14ATXUq2Y3FCJJtn4lWwJVAGVCVg3vsA4HRZ8Q6D22/s1600-h/028.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_aNf0ZBURVIYIJw0f0uJ4Q_tqyeHZUR8k5YUs1QE-QXzAkOOZdDoEypv64szezI0kmllBX2z-l7y9h8x8i_Psaugr7z14ATXUq2Y3FCJJtn4lWwJVAGVCVg3vsA4HRZ8Q6D22/s320/028.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221128296802718930" /></a><br />Some sort of weird Korean seafood broth. Didn't like very much.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghzAZ4wDhnUfIW3WFj6O-iE3UbziA5DeUdZfDofltViw54q7YPFJbIfSihBTv3FybXc9VM3n4YIJa_-XIii41JyJgO5nkYUTsQNRuqCnGdFLObGXVwvQa2rbsbcdbyNQ9bDMog/s1600-h/029.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghzAZ4wDhnUfIW3WFj6O-iE3UbziA5DeUdZfDofltViw54q7YPFJbIfSihBTv3FybXc9VM3n4YIJa_-XIii41JyJgO5nkYUTsQNRuqCnGdFLObGXVwvQa2rbsbcdbyNQ9bDMog/s320/029.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221128543007971586" /></a><br />Chinese dinner at someone's birthday party. I realised at this dinner party that I actually do like Chinese food.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwr6O1azGiDhCP1YhWFumlHfUzBljuqrKtsKezWWACkimtGlIaSDsL9JxzNh5cCHqbU1jtcIzThVsRm2mTmxYeD5_0reIuyuILdWgjG0GGytz9wpdVHSEyAJNuO8YRdy87Sz0l/s1600-h/Malaysia+297.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwr6O1azGiDhCP1YhWFumlHfUzBljuqrKtsKezWWACkimtGlIaSDsL9JxzNh5cCHqbU1jtcIzThVsRm2mTmxYeD5_0reIuyuILdWgjG0GGytz9wpdVHSEyAJNuO8YRdy87Sz0l/s320/Malaysia+297.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221129150824356162" /></a><br />Traditional Malay family dinner. This is what Firdaus's mom cooked for all of us. Thank you sooooooo much Auntie. Bestest dinner in the whole world. I hogged like a pig at this dinner party.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4mjQ4kQ-uYfy5THALIH6Uh3hB2b9ZkmUVWmdjMkCtrqQ_KVL0huQFaiAzmx5Yytln_2J58d41WX0JLy9JdhgCqPAc5bnAVu9kb3A0Dt2oTMyLQmck1Lcz5CQyRjbpTAq-Llbm/s1600-h/030.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4mjQ4kQ-uYfy5THALIH6Uh3hB2b9ZkmUVWmdjMkCtrqQ_KVL0huQFaiAzmx5Yytln_2J58d41WX0JLy9JdhgCqPAc5bnAVu9kb3A0Dt2oTMyLQmck1Lcz5CQyRjbpTAq-Llbm/s320/030.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221129678678895058" /></a><br />Multicultural farewell dinner, hosted by Claudia, Aika and myself. HongKong + Kazakhstan + Indian cuisine. Obviously people got intoxicated at the end of it and what followed was an unforgettable night with silly games, stupid talk, butt dances and ahem...more<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjolDHiI-JPcJwDt6MSz_QYj30G1UzMZtjggK_Cpcod7KecqfAPTXOzOt7ZAlegO_tqtycw7sm8b2LKBbh6dkM3eMbhlV0AzBvC0eX8D8_JM2Qdh36SdYb-0MmZWXWRb4Sjw1zD/s1600-h/031.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjolDHiI-JPcJwDt6MSz_QYj30G1UzMZtjggK_Cpcod7KecqfAPTXOzOt7ZAlegO_tqtycw7sm8b2LKBbh6dkM3eMbhlV0AzBvC0eX8D8_JM2Qdh36SdYb-0MmZWXWRb4Sjw1zD/s320/031.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221130419764958178" /></a><br />Aika's special Kazakh lamb dish. Do you know that horse meat is a delicacy in Kazhakstan. You know I can eat chicken and lamb and fish and all..... but horses, I mean i ride them. I cant imagine digesting something taht I ride on. Will try it though. For sure.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxvNEtZdiUlOlJ0oZipgav3YbQb9ATDIhh_fo0SdIMfcHfTWlFzgOw6x7EK6VP4LqhYN7pisHhhTMlUdkvaVyv_hCqH2JapY-1hcCoZE8WsmeL0L9sGwzTIwibtwZx50bAe31o/s1600-h/032.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxvNEtZdiUlOlJ0oZipgav3YbQb9ATDIhh_fo0SdIMfcHfTWlFzgOw6x7EK6VP4LqhYN7pisHhhTMlUdkvaVyv_hCqH2JapY-1hcCoZE8WsmeL0L9sGwzTIwibtwZx50bAe31o/s320/032.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221130892370556914" /></a><br />Claypot chicken rice. So-so.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVIT6yjgOHPHmsDltdylOZKOpn8arhH_-ioD2EcAq4enx-MeC5sp6bIa-nX9PHrI3kZ_4vwsU6BeJlR9wx51-VB-C-b33qCb5rPlWzFsIWJEqDLa6LQx-1BGhYBNzM2WLfZpHw/s1600-h/033.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVIT6yjgOHPHmsDltdylOZKOpn8arhH_-ioD2EcAq4enx-MeC5sp6bIa-nX9PHrI3kZ_4vwsU6BeJlR9wx51-VB-C-b33qCb5rPlWzFsIWJEqDLa6LQx-1BGhYBNzM2WLfZpHw/s320/033.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221131067302120482" /></a><br />Kuey Teow I think. Better. Nithiya's favourite.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDo5cUGiZMt6FAW_EY8d5IN-JFGDdYsUib5y0_ts3zWERroZNVQcbRvEjWhG1hgpDDB9gIMRV2YKDQS-3AaCY97SkpNmR2RvBQFljueQjUc2k1McqMDXCfJh1i-Sx_e645d5og/s1600-h/034.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDo5cUGiZMt6FAW_EY8d5IN-JFGDdYsUib5y0_ts3zWERroZNVQcbRvEjWhG1hgpDDB9gIMRV2YKDQS-3AaCY97SkpNmR2RvBQFljueQjUc2k1McqMDXCfJh1i-Sx_e645d5og/s320/034.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221131313939929986" /></a><br />Nithiya's mom's special chicken-cooked-in-oven dish. Excllent excellent meal. I ate so much chicken that night, I can't even remember.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHK2AFAjhUqsmVmvzmvtFDkDcjm8dc7KXNyOkLDsaZlBdyd4i2oU29pzxih1cYC5ALpvUxPZZkucRUan1_N6lwHhZ115tJdwIKXffTr-tkKsnjOomGgriAtPOlwu5tKjOk1i_e/s1600-h/035.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHK2AFAjhUqsmVmvzmvtFDkDcjm8dc7KXNyOkLDsaZlBdyd4i2oU29pzxih1cYC5ALpvUxPZZkucRUan1_N6lwHhZ115tJdwIKXffTr-tkKsnjOomGgriAtPOlwu5tKjOk1i_e/s320/035.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221131610142554210" /></a><br />Breakfast at Nithiya's home. Some brown powdery stuff with some ochre coloured sugary stuff with banana. Nice and filling :)<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCm8WuM2bQX9uvD4QwUW9tIvjSO6IO1zHETbCU25JmDGTJN9m_vUINwE9WK-LfZ96GkpI4SfyD4KpAG0MXQeToKkMlkKnRUeNKjVBLJjhnZIQx65UbavAZEF2rS53pm40eW_ir/s1600-h/041.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCm8WuM2bQX9uvD4QwUW9tIvjSO6IO1zHETbCU25JmDGTJN9m_vUINwE9WK-LfZ96GkpI4SfyD4KpAG0MXQeToKkMlkKnRUeNKjVBLJjhnZIQx65UbavAZEF2rS53pm40eW_ir/s320/041.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221131971014846786" /></a><br />Seafood extravaganza with Nithiya's family. This lunch officially qualifies as my initiation into the not-so-elite club of non-vegetarians. I ate everything on the table... and surprisingly liked most of it. My first tryst with all kinds of seafood.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhe4kLAomqtR6hLsPfe9KiQxnCnsxr64Lek5d_fqIabBWtqbQ84fOlxD9YULxhyphenhyphenrOO-zmTezlHhHEbjBbiXfTHNWQLQtdO0sM4R2e_2FW2n3GOoImZyQqTF67hs5izXe_1b8Bjw/s1600-h/036.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhe4kLAomqtR6hLsPfe9KiQxnCnsxr64Lek5d_fqIabBWtqbQ84fOlxD9YULxhyphenhyphenrOO-zmTezlHhHEbjBbiXfTHNWQLQtdO0sM4R2e_2FW2n3GOoImZyQqTF67hs5izXe_1b8Bjw/s320/036.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221132441087733170" /></a><br />Huge shrimp coated in groundnut. AGAIN<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4Z3Zb8q3VO2YqBI-dHfAkqaHKxkicbxsWs4Ao0bg89h2zvOIJ_doUFs23mSKO_lPXiBCvI9kA19kODc3Yj5uXdBMsniTO36FuDMSGl-ZHxNueXfLoExN2piAzlIXwxPAe4foT/s1600-h/037.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4Z3Zb8q3VO2YqBI-dHfAkqaHKxkicbxsWs4Ao0bg89h2zvOIJ_doUFs23mSKO_lPXiBCvI9kA19kODc3Yj5uXdBMsniTO36FuDMSGl-ZHxNueXfLoExN2piAzlIXwxPAe4foT/s320/037.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221132627612581570" /></a><br />Fish with fancy fins and tail. This tasted GOOOOOOOOOOD<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGDyksJFTSGqT946Ls7YsNDsPZ4PvxTiAOLK4vGX1BXbVDCZJR9AOTgeV5nlNfIMkFbbZCQbxI8lROTlJ36Uu9Awi4m-xSA7-2HY3KyfapJZbXvfaGDEa2B1rfC_293gcbwQkb/s1600-h/038.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGDyksJFTSGqT946Ls7YsNDsPZ4PvxTiAOLK4vGX1BXbVDCZJR9AOTgeV5nlNfIMkFbbZCQbxI8lROTlJ36Uu9Awi4m-xSA7-2HY3KyfapJZbXvfaGDEa2B1rfC_293gcbwQkb/s320/038.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221132866212939010" /></a><br />Crab. Not that good, but not that bad either.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxbsi4SW3uqEgr_5dI8C2wn9CqAl45BP075UfY4njUD6AME6AJzuPX2MO7x4CJjJygyWbQ18W-PrFoKpuodvnz3VYWt4iwhY32tTDp51at9SbHnhbYf3AW9XZ4VdZuW_eX2dC1/s1600-h/039.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxbsi4SW3uqEgr_5dI8C2wn9CqAl45BP075UfY4njUD6AME6AJzuPX2MO7x4CJjJygyWbQ18W-PrFoKpuodvnz3VYWt4iwhY32tTDp51at9SbHnhbYf3AW9XZ4VdZuW_eX2dC1/s320/039.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221133153071029282" /></a><br />Hammering the crab to crack it open.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqszoeInTHy_qA0RPvFKSCP_Hy-DTDFJg5vJzePduYM_WrrySWm3MUCoeASkdtaEEeZqAqM4-l-SNszj1vqBdu8rjtBJi3uFfdvk4nYFx8u1_uX3Bc-3DSJnutIKVvp9MrpPZP/s1600-h/040.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqszoeInTHy_qA0RPvFKSCP_Hy-DTDFJg5vJzePduYM_WrrySWm3MUCoeASkdtaEEeZqAqM4-l-SNszj1vqBdu8rjtBJi3uFfdvk4nYFx8u1_uX3Bc-3DSJnutIKVvp9MrpPZP/s320/040.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221133323603671266" /></a><br />Sotong (Baby Squid). I HATED this. Not only did this taste bad, but I always felt that their eyes were staring right back at me. Creepy baby squid. I did like the regular sotong goreng (fried squid) though. Very chewy and tasty. Babies just should not be consumed. Strict rule.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi25e7KoVkLW3ePwXcevmo0esfzXaY-w2VMwEYoX2IJH9JhnTkI1XSdKRiIs_x2Vqt-m2GLOJqORIrqEYSb86_DPvilYH5XzyEKSgcjJyjcPoBkPCtjmxTYOrg3oRXt51Zf92uF/s1600-h/042.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi25e7KoVkLW3ePwXcevmo0esfzXaY-w2VMwEYoX2IJH9JhnTkI1XSdKRiIs_x2Vqt-m2GLOJqORIrqEYSb86_DPvilYH5XzyEKSgcjJyjcPoBkPCtjmxTYOrg3oRXt51Zf92uF/s320/042.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221133880986709074" /></a><br />After eating everyone compares the heap of crab shells and shrimp heads next to their plate. This is what mine looked like. Wait till you see the next one.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEim643sbXc8cY40l9QHaI9k8wbbvdQO7Fll5vOcMXtFodF5SXCb8G0b6xEI6rrHZcpw41ZLA1kJpVyAXmixJbUOHj-huDH5YX6_BTutMjChGaAACX1MJI0-Q8nqoDD4KBnL7ova/s1600-h/043.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEim643sbXc8cY40l9QHaI9k8wbbvdQO7Fll5vOcMXtFodF5SXCb8G0b6xEI6rrHZcpw41ZLA1kJpVyAXmixJbUOHj-huDH5YX6_BTutMjChGaAACX1MJI0-Q8nqoDD4KBnL7ova/s320/043.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5221134246305199778" /></a><br />This is what Nithiya's uncle's plate looked like. HOW do they eat SO MUCH seafood ?!!??!! And how can you put all the remains on the table with such a pretty table cloth !??!?! It's a Malaysian thing. <br /><br /><br />Well, that ends my guided tour of my experiments with food. I musy say I was very inflexible to begin with. Slowly learnt that if I want to see the world, travel to different places, I MUST learn how to eat EVERYTHING. I still can't get myself to eat pork and beef. No red meat yet. Lets see. In London perhaps.<br /><br />I feel confident now that I can survive anywhere in the world without being too fussy and choosy..... And I'm happy about that. My dad however sprinkled some Ganga jal on me when I told him about everything I ate :D<br /><br />I know I'll continue to try out new things and I'll continue to experiment with food. When I tried all this out, I felt such a strong sense of accomplishment and I enjoy that feeling and I want it again...so I will continue eating like this. It makes me happy to know that as every day passes by I become more and more flexible as a person. I've always been rigid with fixed ideas and opinions. I'm glad that's changing. I hope I turn into a better person with each passing day.<br /><br />My conclusion : If you want to be a better person, start with food. Serious.Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-376901639933453792008-07-09T01:44:00.002+05:302008-07-09T02:05:49.308+05:30FreedomFreedom..... I need it now more than ever. It’s luring me in, enticing me..... Never before had I felt such a strong need for freedom. I know I will have lots of it once I head for LSE and it’s so daunting. I just realise now that it has been nearly 22 years that I’ve lived a life, partially my own, but mostly based on what others expected of me... And although this has come late, this sudden sense of rebellion and this desire to be completely on my own is just too overpowering. I want to be able to wear the clothes I want to, visit places I like, do things I enjoy, spend time with people I love and speak my mind without having to worry about what my family would say…Urrrrrrggggggggghhhhhhhhhhh !!!!!!!!! I WANT to be independent.... And I know that it involves a lot of hardship, a lot of compromises and probably more ‘downs’ than ‘ups’.....but I WANT it. I love my family and as horrible as this may sound, I think I need to get away from family...not for a short period, but for quite some time. I feel stifled sometimes conforming to a pre-determined way of living and conduct. I need my space. I need some independence. I need the power to make my own choices..... And I want all the responsibilities that come along with it. I know it won’t run away from them. Two and a half months more. Freedom wont elude me any more. <br /><br /><strong>Everything that is really great and inspiring is created by the individual who can labour in freedom</strong> - Albert EinsteinRupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-64821526415239057802008-06-04T23:15:00.003+05:302008-06-04T23:26:40.643+05:30Bomb blasts, fuel price hikes, bedroom mishaps, my internship, Georgia and moreI've had a rather interesting day. I woke up, fell off of my bed, got a nice big cut on my right arm and then well, started working. I'm into the fourth week of my internship with CCS. It has been a mixed experience so far. I feel like I'm losing out on a lot of coffee-table discussions and debates with my fellow interns and its a little lonely working alone in Mumbai... The good news though is that I finally have a research guide - Mr.Ajay Shaw. I met him recently and dicussed my project. He has been very helpful and easy to talk to. It feels nice to have someone to discuss my topic with. I'm a little stressed out this week. Mid-term submissions are just around the corner and I'm wondering if my work so far is good enough. The direction of my project now basically depends on a crucial piece of information that I need to extract from the BMC. I'm hoping I can accomplish that before the end of this week. <br />In the meanwhile I was zapping through news channels to see how people reacted to the hike in fuel prices. News channels like Aaj Tak are giving crappy news. They're accusing the government of exploiting people. Honestly, I dont think they've done their research. The fuel price was inevitable....And this message is for the reporter who presented the 10 pm news on Aaj Tak - The government DOES NOT make a profit by supplying fuel. In fact it offers a lot of subsidies... And the Rs.23 that you said they earn per litre isnt lying idle in government coffers; Its being used for other developmental projects !!!<br /><br /><br />Today I met Ivane for coffee. He's going to be my future course-mate at LSE. Interesting guy - Georgian by origin, schooling in Greece, adolescence in London, parents in Russia... I had a wonderful time with him discussing things as diverse as the ring on my finger to US politics. I decided to make him taste some chaat bcoz he wanted to know what mumbai street food was like. I thought Talao Pali would be a good place to take him. In the middle of this I received a phone call from my dad updating me about the bomb blast at Gadkari Ranagythan in Thane. Scary !!! I would have been in that very area with Ivane had we left slightly early.<br /><br />As I type this, the clouds are thundering outside and I can hear the gentle pitter-patter of rain outside my window. The smell of wet soil always puts a smile on my face. Monsoons are here. Next year this time, I'll be busy nerding around at LSE and so this year's monsoons are extra-special. Like Shruti said earlier, unlike the European rain, OUR rain has character :)Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-64479428155599145162008-06-04T00:09:00.002+05:302008-06-04T00:16:03.053+05:30Numbers110 days till I leave for LSE<br />60 days for my 22nd Birthday<br />40 days for my internship to end<br />10 days for Hyun min's arrival<br />5 days for my mom's birthday<br />1 day to meet IvaneRupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-10810766864232041652008-05-28T21:06:00.004+05:302008-06-04T00:15:45.686+05:30TaggedBold the statements that are true to you.<br /><br /><br />Italicize the statements that you WISH are true.<br />Leave the fibs alone.<br /><br /><br />Then, stab 3 people to do the same test:<br /><br /><strong>I miss somebody right now.</strong><br /><em>I do not watch tv these days.</em><br />I wear glasses or contact lenses.<br />I love to play video games.<br />I have tried marijuana.<br /><strong>I believe honesty is usually the best policy</strong><br /><strong>I have changed mentally over the last year.</strong> <br />I carry my knife/razor everywhere with me.<br /><em>I curse.</em><br /><em>I'm totally smart. </em><br />I've broken someone's bone.<br /><strong>I'm paranoid sometimes</strong><br />I would get plastic surgery if it were 100% safe, free of cost, and scar-free.<br /><strong>I need money right now.</strong><br /><em>I love sushi</em><br />I talk really, really fast. <br />I have long hair. <br />I have lost money in Las Vegas. *wish i've been to Vegas<br /><strong>I have at least one sibling.</strong><br />I have worn fake hair/fingernails/eyelashes in the past.<br />I couldn't survive without Caller ID.<br />I like the way I look. <br /><strong>I am usually pessimistic.</strong><br /><strong>I have a lot of mood swings.</strong><br />I have a hidden talent.<br />I'm always hyper.<br />I have a lot of friends.<br /><strong>I am currently single.</strong><br />I have pecked someone of the same sex. <br /><strong>I enjoy talking on the phone.</strong><br /><strong>I practically live in sweatpants or PJ pants.</strong><br /><strong>I love to shop</strong><br /><strong>Enjoy window shopping.</strong><br />I would rather shop than eat. <br /><em>I don't hate anyone.</em><br />I'm a pretty good dancer.<br />I'm completely embarrassed to be seen with my mother.<br /><strong>I have a cell phone</strong><br /><strong>I believe in God.</strong> <br />I watch MTV on a daily basis<br />I have passed out drunk in the past 6 months.<br /><strong>I've rejected someone before</strong> <br /><strong>I want to have children in the future</strong> <br />I have changed a diaper before<br />I've called the cops on a friend before.<br /><strong>I'm not allergic to anything.</strong><br /><strong>I have a lot to learn.</strong> <br />I'm shy around members of the opposite sex.<br />I have made a move on a friend's significant other or crush in the past.<br /><strong>I have tried alcohol before.</strong><br />I own the South Park movie. <br />I would die for my best friend.<br />I think that Pizza Hut has the best pizza.<br />I have used my sexuality to advance my career.<br />I love Michael Jackson, scandals and all.<br />Halloween is awesome because you get free candy.<br />I watch Spongebob Squarepants and I like it.<br />I am happy at this moment!<br />I'm obsessed with girls….<br />I tie my shoelaces differently from anyone I've ever met.<br /><strong>I study for tests most of the time</strong>.<br />I am comfortable with who I am right now.<br />I have more than just my ears pierced.<br />I walk barefoot wherever I can<br />I have jumped off a bridge. <br /><strong>I love sea turtles.</strong><br />I spend ridiculous money on makeup.<br /><strong>Plan on achieving a major goal/dream</strong><br />I'm proficient in an musical instrument<br />I hate office jobs.<br />I love sci-fi movies.<br />I think water rules <br />I went college out of state. <br />I like sausages.<br /><strong>I love kisses.</strong><br />I fall for the worst people.<br /><strong>I adore bright colours.</strong> <br />I can't live without black eyeliner.<br /><strong>I don't know why the hell I just did this stupid thing.</strong><br />I usually like covers better than originals.<br /><em>I can pick up things with my toes.</em><br /><strong>I can whistle.</strong><br /><em>I can move my tongue in waves, much like a snake's slither</em><br /><strong>I have ridden/owned a horse.</strong><br />I still have every journal I've written in.<br /><strong>I can't stick to a diet….</strong><br /><strong>I talk in my sleep.</strong><br /><strong>I try to forget things by drowning them out with loads of distractions.</strong> <br />I have jazz in my blood.<br /><strong>Climbing trees is a brilliant past-time.</strong><br />I wear a toe ring.<br /><strong>I can't stand at LEAST one person that I work with.</strong><br />I am a caffeine junkie<br />I cosplay or know what cosplaying is.<br />I have been to over 15 conventions.<br /><strong>I will collect anything, and the more nonsensical the better.</strong><br /><strong>I'm an artist.</strong><br /><strong>I only clean my room when necessary.</strong> <br />I like a person of the same sex.<br /><strong>I love being happy.</strong><br />I am an adrenaline junkie. <br /><br /><br />Stab 3 persons:<br />-Shruti<br />-Harini<br />-PommieRupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-33044508559915513582008-05-16T00:07:00.002+05:302008-06-04T00:16:03.053+05:30And so it begins...My orientation kit has finally arrived... After 7 whole days !!! My summer research internship with the Centre for Civil Society (www.ccs.in) has begun... I've decided that I'd constantly update my blog on a weekly basis to discuss my progress at this internship. This week hasn't been very fruitful actually. My orientation kit arrived SO late. I still haven't been assigned a research guide and I've simply worked by myself on a topic that I haven't even finalized yet. As of now, the topic that has caught my attention is "The impact of privatization on water management systems in the K-ward of Mumbai" . I have to thank Sonal for helping me narrow down to this topic. After hours of research over the internet, I have fallen in love with this issue... In fact I'm surprised that I never expressed an opinion on this issue before. Maybe this is where CCS has played a bit of a motivating role. Its whole ideology is to encourage people to think about current issues that affect us and do something about it because only when you have a proactive population and strong public opinion, can change happen. One more day left for week 1 to end. Hopefully something better next week :)Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16462665.post-88690576553780046492008-05-03T00:36:00.003+05:302008-06-04T00:15:56.367+05:30WordsI read all of those words today. Again. I shouldn't have. I've resisted the temptation for so long...But today I couldn't stop. It brings back memories both sweet and bitter (yes, I still put sweet before bitter). I wish had more to read. Seems like these aren't enough, but then its my fault, I sent the words back...I do not know if one should consider oneself fortunate, but I remember those words. My life revolves around words - yours, mine, theirs. I can't live without them, I can't live with them. Words !!!!!Rupalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291803871919579049noreply@blogger.com2